Why did he say i love you?

Question

I known this guy for about two weeks. then today we went to the movies with some friends, then after that we went to the bookstore and he had to leave, and we hugged, and then made out. and after that he told me he loves me. I was suprised i dont give out that little line to anyone especially if its only been two weeks, i told him i love him to, but only because i didn't want him hanging you know? and by the way were not even dating.

so im just curiouse what makes people want to say i love you? when they don't even know you well.?

Answer 1

yeah my former crush ALEX said that to me when i called him at work to let him know i got home safe that night i wasn't expecting a I LOVE YOU from him which threw me 4 a loop i didn't say it back 2 him because i didn't know him well enough 2 say it...

Answer 2

Because when you're in love it doesn't take very long.

However, it's for you to decide if he really meant it.

Take some time and get to know him a bit more, if he's still saying the same line after awhile, I'm guessing he means it.

Answer 3

He probably meant it.

Answer 4

Well, you are kinda lovable, so maybe he meant it. Or maybe he's lusting after your mohawk. ;)

Or maybe it's this: Sometimes people are a bit too eager to "have someone" and jump the gun a bit by fast-forwarding the potential relationship. Kinda like they almost place more significance on uttering the phrase "I love you" than what in fact it really means. Kind of like impulse shopping. One might over-extend himself and buy a bunch of stuff without really even knowing if he needs it; but it's a high.

A craving for love can do strange things. Unfortunately, very often the definition of love gets lost or deviated in the process of searching for it.

And very often love and lust and need get intermingled. So you are wise, I think, to question it. But I think you already know it mon ami! =)

Of course, and again, you are adorable, so maybe he's really smitten with you. But I think you know as well as I do that were you to walk away from him then in 5 days he'll be proclaiming his love for somebody else.

*hugs*

Answer 5

thats kinda weird. not even dating and all. anyway tell him to back off a bit cuz ur not ready. love takes time. if u end up loving him back then awsome.  

Answer 6

He may have really meant it.

He also might want something...

But that's for you to decide hon. ;)

Answer 7

what a person makes say i love you???

well two things

HE'S REALLY INLOVE (LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT, VERY OLD LINE) it is true it happens everytime, I know an old couple, they guy was actually supposed to be eloping with his wife's bestfriend,but he ended up marrying her because the other girl ditched him, it happens comes when it comes

or he wants too keep you just for you know sexual things

answer mine

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...

Answer 8

well ther's some ppl that just kinda say it, u know? like when they hang up the phone, one of my mom's friends says i love u instead of goodbye and it always catches me off guard. lol

that or he really meant it. heehee

or he's, uh, french, i think, they kiss as a way of greeting or saying bye. other cultures do as well.  

Answer 9

Have no idea but turn and run sounds like a  real needy person. Why would you tell this person that you loved them. After only two weeks that's just stupid.You sound as needy as the other person. dumb dumb

dumb

Answer 10

well,maybe that guy don't know what is really the meaning of saying ..I LOVE YOU..but then being curious of something leads to discover unwanted things...

Answer 11

i think he really does love you that's why he said it.He doesnt know you but he might have this feeling that tells him that you might be the kind of bf he would love to have

Answer 12

your probably hott and he wants to be with u..

Answer 13

Well, at least you didn't respond, "No, you don't love me; how could you love me?" That kinda kills a romantic moment.

He is attracted to you and wants to sleep with you. I am assuming that you haven't yet or you would have mentioned it. But if you have, that makes what I am about to say more true. I don't think this guy is shallow. Its somewhat complicated, but he probably likes you a lot and is one of those people who will feel bad about sleeping with someone they don't love.  In his mind, sleeping with someone you don't love, kinda makes a person a s**t. Since he believes what he says (at the moment), he is being sincere. (Yes, it is not a lie if you believe that it is true). If you believe that s*x without love = s**t = bad, you will fall in love (sincerely, totally) more quickly to take advantage of any sexual opportunity that arises. Sometimes very, very quickly.

Two weeks is nothing. It's those guys who fall in love with you in 6 minutes that you have to worry about.