Why did i get jealous when someone commented my girlfriends pic on facebook?

Question

We're in a long distance relationship and the person that commented her pic said she has s**y lips. He also said she was s**y in another picture. This bothers me because they go to the same school. Another reason this bothers me because i don't want to be the jealous type of guy. Please help

Answer 1

being jealous is just normal in a relationship. just dont let it hinder a good communication between you two. ask her who the guy is and believe her(well that depends on the trust you have for her). you may want to be introduced to the guy if given the chance for you to know him too. dont be afraid of being jealous. girls even feels touched if she knows her boyfriend is jealous of a guy.just dont stop her of her daily routine so as not to see the guy. this might ruin your rel.all you have to do is trust your girl.

Answer 2

it is normal to be jealous. ill be jealous if someone commented on my bf while we are in ldrelationship

Answer 3

Jealousy is common - especially in long distant relationships.

This is because you really care for her and you know that he sees a lot more of her than you.

Don't worry you're not alone. Talk to your girlfriend and tell her how you feel. Don't be surprised if she laughs at you but I'm sure she'll tell you that everything is ok.

Answer 4

my opinion is, u should not  too worry about some body else who is comments pic about ur gf, bcs if u n ur girl has been a long of time together, caring wit each other, n so on, so, why u should worry or getting jealous only for small matter reason like this? think it back, n u will get the best answer from ur self.

Answer 5

Your jealous when someone comments on your girlfriends pictures on facebook because they show "affection" for her I personally think that if your not jealous when a guy shoes affection for your girlfriend you don't really like her...so don't feel bad that your jealous. If you don't want to be jealous you can talk to her about it I mean thats the point of a relationship you can talk to each other about things.

Answer 6

Because you don't feel secure in your relationship. Maybe it's the long distance thing, I don't know. Long distance relationships are hard because your mind starts to wonder and creating all sorts of scenarios that could happen but 9 times out of 10 don't. You feel threatened because another guy in the same town as your girlfriend commented about her being s**y so now you might think he wants to hook up with her. Maybe he does but that doesn't mean she will or would even want to. In order for your relationship to work you have to have trust. I'm not suggesting that you don't, what I am saying is if you trust your girlfriend and you believe in your relationship just be proud when someone comments on your girlfriend as I'm sure she would when someone comments about you to her. Just remember it's you that has her heart. Thats all that matters in the end anyway.

Answer 7

Well you have a right to be jealous when another guy is flirting with your girlfriend! It's sweet that you don't want to be the jealous type of guy too. If you know your girlfriend won't cheat then it's fine. Just make sure that she didn't flirt on his pictures either.

Answer 8

With you being in a long distance relationship, you are insecure with your relationship.  I understand because you don't know the guys over where she is.  Just ignore them, because she picked you and not them, right :)