Why did it hurt when I got fingered?

Question

I was fingered for the first time by my boyfriend last night, and it really hurt. I have fingered myself before, and it never hurt. He went in first with one finger and it was fine, then he tried two and I had to ask him to stop. It hurt so badly. After that, he went back to one, but it still hurt a lot.

Why?

Answer 1

Your hymen is very sensitive before breaking. So definately have him just use one finger until you're comfortable with two. Wait a few days to start again though when you stop feeling discomfort.

Answer 2

I can use all of my fingers...;) Yeah, try using some lube and tell him to only use one finger.

Answer 3

1. Maybe you weren't used to two fingers yet and you didn't like the stretch

2. Did he clip his fingernails? He may have scratched the walls

3. Were you lubed?

I heard it hurts the first time, but it gets better. If anything, I think it may have been his fingernails.

Answer 4

He may have injured your delicate insides. Maybe your hymen. He should be very gentle and use lots of lubrication. Also, you don't have to have him use two fingers if it's causing discomfort. Ask him to respect that.

Your soreness will go away in a day or two.

Answer 5

*vomits*