Why did my girlfriend left me when she got a job and i didnt..she told she wants to be happy wth her carrier..

Question

she was wth me for last three yrs.but now when my final exams got over she went back home and she was tryin to avoid me. i tried to contact her,but wth i got was a bad sign tht her friend came to me and told tht she wants to discontinue wth me and she wants to be more happy wth her job. and carier is more important for her.after hearin this i was really shocked and even planned to try suicide..

she told me tht she was not happy wth me,but i when she was wth me i did everythin for her,i bought everything before she askin me,i took her for parties and every whr,but stil she told tht she was not happy wth me,and now she wants to be happy wth her carrier..

wht should i do..can anybody give me suggestions wht i should do.

my friends tried to speak wth her and she is talkin to them in such a way tht nobody can anythin against her.she is speakin so softly and gently..

my question is was she playin wth me and have some time pass durin our col life..

plz convince me someone......i dont know wht to do but still i have some faith tht one day she wil realise tht wht she has done is a big mortal sin...

Answer 1

Dear its life everyone has the right to choose his/her career. Don't think about this and concentrate on your career that is most important because there are other peolples also who are waiting for your sucess, for only one girlfriend you can't brake hearts of your whole family. They have some expectation and you have to prove yourself.

Maybe someone is waiting for you...............

Be quick otherwise you will loose her also.

Answer 2

In today's world every educated people want to establish themselves with their own abilities. That's what she has done and nothing wrong in it. A person cannot live a life only with love & emotion in today's competitive world. A single back step can push you far behind the ever forwarding world. Be positive towards your life and you too work hard for your own career (not carrier)

Answer 3

Dear friend,

You should not feel bad about it. Have positive thinking. Just place yourself in her place, what had you done in case you had got a job. You could have done the same. Its a bare fact of life, and true also to a certain extent, that its difficult to get a job and easy to get a spouse. Every parent will be tempted to marry his daughter to one who is placed on a good position, getting handsome salary. So, if she is career oriented, you should not feel bad. Had she been married to you, and then in that if she would have done so, you could have taken objection to it. But in relationship, you can impose your will and wish over the other party. She may or may not realise, forget about her and start a new chapter in life.  

Answer 4

leave her. it is good for your future life.

Answer 5

Enviornmental change made up her mind for firm decision for a happy life .

Answer 6

Hello My dear Friend,

LIFE is like FILE. The status will chage when it will move from one table to another table. Also girls are like same. I think she was taking all the benefits drom your side. When she got a job.

Its better for you...Ask her once? Why she left you?  Because You can give all the gifts in the world to the one you have chosen, but the everlasting one will always remain the deed of a kind word

Answer 7

work on you spelling and grammar and she might come back  

Answer 8

It is a lesson for you. Don't worry  Be happy, And try to come better than her. At that time you will achieve the goals