Why did she do that to me?

Question

I offered my best friend around my house to stay the night I phoned her lat night about seven and she said her mother wasn't home so I phoned just now to find out off her little brother she's gone to stay over at her other best friends house , without even telling me anything . I don't understand why she did it , I understand she doesn't see her other best friend often , she normally goes for a whole weekend and she invited me to stay at hers tommorow I guess that's cancelled and I was looking foreward to that too. I know you will think it's childish but it hurts, especially when it's behind your back and I feel terrible why did she do this to me? And what should I do?

Answer 1

have you not heard of sportingly

Answer 2

I know it sounds awful her going off like that - but you are not the first young person to be hurt by such an action and definitely wont be the last!!

Just phone her up and say that you were expecting her and are suprised that she has gone to the other girls house and how much you had been looking forward to being with her at her house tomorrow night.

She may jsut say sorry she didnt think - and she probably didnt!

Ask her when you can make a date to do the sleepovers and then say 'give my regards to......' so that it shows you have no hard feelings.

On the other hand if she is short and offhand with you - maybe there is an underlying problem somewhere - which again you wont know about until you ask her - which you should do.

Cheer up.  I'm sure it will all be okay!!