Why did she do this all of a sudden?

Question

I know this girl in work.She never really liked me I guess, but she always talked business etc.Polite and ok.Recently I was talking to her and she suddenly started to get very coarse and vulgar and kept looking over my shoulder.When I turned around a guy we both know and are friends with came in and he asked her a simple question.She answered him and was extremely suggestive.I know they have that kind of banter between them, but never ever did she do this in front of me.It was totally out of character.He didn't engage in it, I suppose cause I was there.Why would she suddenly start talking so dirty in front of me the minute he appeared?I know she likes him sexually and she also suspects that something happened between us.

Answer 1

because u might not be a cool kid and the guy who she likes might be a cool guy because she doesn't want to be seen talking to uncool kids

Answer 2

if she suspects something happened between u & this guy then shes prob hoping for a reaction or that youd say something did happen!

just ignore her!

Answer 3

well because she suspects there is something between you and the guy because she was trying to make you back off and feel really uncomfortable. Sort of like a dog marking their territory LOL stay away from the girl because I think she is trying to stir up trouble. Whenever you talk to the guy make sure she isn't around...because she obviously doesn't want you to be around him. :D good luck and smile

Answer 4

Who knows why crude people act like they do?  

Answer 5

She is probably off with you because she thinks you like this guy... maybe u dont but she obviously thinks u do which is making her jelous.

she probably did this infront of u to show u that there is something going off between them and to make u aware of that to stay away from him.

just ignore her, she seems pretty weird!

Answer 6

She's probably being two faced is all. I wouldn't worry, if she's quite stand offish, she might have problems with making friends with women, so she is sexually overt to men. Thus making friends with them and being a bit of a tease.

If she does it again just ignore her, walk away if you have to. That'll prove your point, but still be polite to her (in a non agressive way if you catch my drift). Or people may think your being bitchy.

Answer 7

That is her problem

Be pleased it is not yours.

Answer 8

She's jealous, she thinks he fancies you!  Guys don't like vulgar girls.

Answer 9

She was looking for reaction from both you and him.  It is a nasty ploy, but it is common for woman when they really want to see where things stand and they are too afraid to ask.

Answer 10

You sound very young and inexperienced.  She is trying to make you jealous.