Why didn't he get an erection?

Question

A guy and I were going to have s*x last night for the first time (we are both early 20s). After over an hour of foreplay he still wasn't able to get an erection. He said he didn't know what was wrong. I have had s*x with other guys before and they have gotten one very easily just from kissing. Could he have a some type of problem? I just have never had this type of situation happen before.

Answer 1

He could have ED issues, but at his age, it's unlikely. The mostly likely explanation, is that for whatever reason, being with you just didn't do it for him. Sometimes drugs, or excessive drinking can cause a guy to lose his libido also.

Answer 2

I think that the most likely reason was his relaxation level. Often times when guys have s*x with a new partner, they can be very excited, however, very nervous. It has even happened to be before.

Answer 3

i would think he was just very nervous

Answer 4

couldve just been nerves. if it happens next time it may raise concerns.

Answer 5

he just had performance anxiety.  it hits lots of guys:  they want it so bad, and the body just doesn't cooperate.

Answer 6

The cause of ED (erectile dysfunction) can be psychological (he's not aroused because of anxiety or not aroused by a particular partner) or physical. If the cause is physical, there are foods which can help. Most recently, foods with citrulline such as watermelon have been determined by research studies to help ED.

Answer 7

could have been nervous or just g*y

Answer 8

He was probraly nervous or too excited because it was gonna be the first time yall did it. I don't know any remedies, I never had that problem before.