Why didn't you have kids? A penny for your thoughts?

Question

For me it was timing (like a 555 timer). As time went on and the 3 step kids grew up (one girl and two boys) I saw how the girl turned out. When everyone gets nosy and wants something to gossip about I give them something along these lines. I was told the old wise tail of having twins. Seeing how the daughter turned out and in time the two boys bad decisions that will follow them for life I tell eveyone I did not want to posion the green earth with another daughter (or two) like the one I have as a step daughter. Half the genes and all that. Many a truth is said in jest but it gives the gossip mongers something to talk about.

cheers

Answer 1

im too young and they cost too much to raise.

Answer 2

genes dont haveing anything to do with how they turned out (unless your referring to how they look)

they way they behave is 100% how they are raised. so if you raised her then its your fault

Answer 3

I may only be fifteen, but I decided right at the age of seven that I don't ever want to have a family. The reason is because I want to pursue my dream career so badly and once I am working my dream career I don't want to quit. It's not that I don't like kids, I think kids are pretty cool (though I think some teenagers are the most annoying and small minded people I've ever met), but I just don't want my own. Also, I think I'd be selfish if I had my own kids because I would be working so much and I wouldn't have any time to take care of the children.

So I think it's best that I don't have children. In fact, I would like to get my tubes tied in my twenties.

Kids are not for everyone and I'm glad I made that decision now rather than later when if I already had kids.

However, I do plan to have quite a couple pets, but I will make sure to put some time in for them because I've always wanted a ferret or two and maybe a couple cats and perhaps even a turtle, idk, I love animals.

Answer 4

I have 2 now, but I swore up and down before I would never ever have kids. I couldn't stand kids when I didn't have any but things changed for good when I did. It was like Magic! I never thought in a million years that my heart could actually live outside my body! It feels like that!