Why do 13 yr. olds have s*x????

Question

seriously!!! WE (because im 13) are just kids!!Do we even know the dangers of it?? Its soooo gross!!!All we really have to think about is school! Not having s*x!! I concentrate on school because I dont want to be one of those gross girls!

Answer 1

Because their parents don't spank them and keep them in line.

Answer 2

Curiosity

Forbidden fruit

Enjoyment

Answer 3

they have low self esteem and horny

Answer 4

Because they are horny...

Answer 5

Lack of parental control and influence causes this.

Answer 6

b/c they are horny and don't know the consequences yet

Answer 7

Good for you! s*x is special and sacred and is best enjoyed with your husband...at least you know for sure he won't think you're 'gross'.

But the girls that do don't have the proper information, guidance and attention from the adults in charge of them. Having s*x at 13 is not cool, or s**y and will not make you respected or liked.

I'm glad that you realise all those things...you won't be one of those irresponsible girls who come on here to post stuff like "I'm pregnant...should I tell my parents?" and junk like that.

Now get back to your studies! :)

Answer 8

OK having s*x doesnt make you gross at all hun, how do you think you were made? s*x is  natural, we are all sexual beings, young people just dont know the consequences, but then again, some of them do. Hormones is a reason, we all get horny. Its good that ur main focus is on skool, keep it that way. And Its good that you havent had s*x yet, its ur innocence. save your virginity for the love of your life, save it for the one who deserves it.

Answer 9

They do it because they felt the urge and found someone they fancied enough to do it with.

It isn't "gross" but a completely natural human need. Best enjoyed when you are older though.

13 is too young for such a heavy involvement as people are not emotionally mature enough to handle it.

Answer 10

Ok first of all.... s*x is not "gross" it just need to be put off until ATLEAST 17.. and even then its young.... If it werent for s*x then you wouldnt be here... so dont hate on it...

Answer 11

Hormones and immature judgment.  Coupled with peer pressure and (believe it or not) sometimes parental expectations.

Answer 12

I can only speculate, since I waited until I was married, at 22 years old, to have s*x.

I think there are a lot of reasons that young girls have s*x.

- Peer pressure.  They think their girlfriends will look up to them and the boys will like them even more.

- Outside influence.  s*x is so romantized in the media (movies, TV, ads, etc.) that even young girls are seeing it and being influenced by it.  They think it will make them accepted by their peers, but also grown up and accepted by adults.  Furthermore, if their Hollywood idols are selling it, it can't be that bad, right?

- Lack of (or negative) parental influence.  Parents need to talk to their kids about s*x.  My guess is, most of these girls don't have really great parents who talk to them about it.

- Lack of core values.  This goes along with the parental influence.  If you have a good set of core values, then you know that s*x at 13 is just wrong.

s*x is great in the right context (a committed, monogamous, marital relationship, in my opinion) but I can't imagine there being anything great about it for a 13 year old girl.  Her body isn't designed to be ready for it.

Answer 13

13 is young. but s*x is a natural thing, it isn't gross. kids reach emotional maturity at different ages, you will know when s*x is right.

Answer 14

sweetie, this world is gross. I know how ya feel, cause i will be 13 soon. But I am a God's Girl, and i am trying to get more and more girls to be one with me.....a GOdly example to this strange world.

Answer 15

idk  cuss they want 2 bhazvne s*x

Answer 16

Good for you, I agree. Also it's because they don't have good parents who look out after them.

Answer 17

because they think that they'll be popular, but really they have not a clue