Why do Aries men drive you up the flaming wall one minute and excite you the next?

Question

We were having a smashing evening come home and then he started shouting about papers on the table I said wats the problem and he strted shouting and is now in the spare room ...wat? been together 2 years ....A Libran lass

Answer 1

Well, you're opposites, so that's the first issue.  The second thing is that, that's what they're known for.  Aries are like the babies of the zodiac (I'm sure some tool is going to say, "how can they be the babies when they're the first sign lol"): They'll get mad over something dumb, and two seconds later, they're over it.  Also, they see arguing as foreplay.

Answer 2

I hear you  loud and clear..I am a libra and my husband of 4yrs is an Aries..he just flares up very quickly....then its over very quickly too! Thats the good thing about them though they get over these flare up rather quick and forget all about it..and it can small things that wouldn't annoy me....

Now after all these years I just let him get on with it....when he has had his little episode I explore it with him and he is always embrassed...and says it will not happen again...a few days or weeks later he goes again..now I just pray for patience and let him get on with it..I think they are just like that these Aries men....just don't feed into his drama...

Answer 3

Hmm.. I think its just your guy. But Aries are known to change temper. Being aries he'll get over it fast though

Answer 4

Thats a strange Aries you have there. My husband is an Aries, he is very quiet, the only thing he is not very friendly

Answer 5

It has absolutely jack to do with any starsign!

'Fraid ur fella has a treat em mean keep em keen mentality

and being honest...

looks like its working!

Tell him to stop being a moaning, whinging mamby-pamby cry baby - As the woman of the house its YOUR responsibility to do all the nagging and whining! lol

Answer 6

I'm an Aries but I don't think that I have ever excited anyone.

Answer 7

from experience when an aries man feels like there is an expectation of him he will run a mile!!! Avoidence!!! My Aries fella thinks it's nothing to do with the papers its somthing else upset him and hes used that to show you he's upset!

Good luck!

Answer 8

Do they? Never noticed.

Maybe he's neurotic, and he expects everything to be as he placed it out in his mind. Perhaps he thinks something bad will happen if anything is out of place.

When you think something bad will happen, you would snap as well, wouldn't you?

Answer 9

hun i think thts all men ha ha x*x

Answer 10

Libras do that as well.