Why do Germans stare at different looking people?

Question

I have traveled a great deal and have noticed that Germans stare at people who are different more than any other country that I've ever been to. I'm also from a European country, and this behavior would be considered extremely rude and offensive where I'm from. I understand that it may be cultural, and I'm willing to accept that if it is, but I'm curious as to whether or not Germans realize that they're doing it. I have friends who are Black and Asian, and whenever we go out they get stared at like they're animals in a zoo. I'm not talking about looking someone in the eyes when talking, everyone does that, but this is clearly staring. I can understand curiousity, but to stare very long makes people uncomfortable. Any intelligent and insightful thoughts would be appreciated.

Answer 1

Why are the Germans on this site so quick to refute the truth? This DOES happen. I never have stains, or unzipped zipper and I get stared at all day and every day walking down the street. No, I don't look German, and YES people do stare. I bet you guys do it too, you just aren't aware of it. I attribute it to being that I don't look German, and perhaps people are trying to figure out where I come from. Either way it's rude and uncomfortable. I feel like I'm on a TV show and just didn't know it. What I've begun to do is take all in stride and ask people what they're looking at or "May I help you?" or "Why don't you take a picture, it'll last longer?"

Answer 2

Actually, it happens quite a lot, especially on public transport. There is a discussion here about it: http://www.toytowngermany.com/forum/inde... (link to ex-pat forum). I haven't managed to figure it out - but it does feel uncomfortable. I stare back these days. With attitude.