Why do I always feel I am not worth for things?

Question

I always feel like I am not worth for things. Why do I feel that way and how can I overcome this feeling?

Let me take a few examples of what I am trying to say. Sometimes, I am around certain persons and I just feel like I am just not up to their standard. I just feel inferior though I know I am not. When I score get very good marks in exams, I just feel it was a matter of luck and I am not worth it. Sometimes, when I really know that one of the hottest girl I know, has a crush on me, I just feel like I am not worth her, it just comes into my mind that am not worth her and she'll get someone better than me who'll be able to keep her more happy than i'll be able to keep her... even if those things are not true at all. Why do I tend to underestimate my own potential? I just wanna stop feeling like this...

Answer 1

sounds like you are only looking at the glass half empty,,,, i think you should be looking at it half full and start being more positive, and if you wana switch up things from you normal rutien than do the oppisites..  

Answer 2

You may be feeling this way, but its not the truth.

All have some different feelings once in a while.

You are normal. Don't worry.

Go for a comedy movie.

Answer 3

hey there...  i dont know you or your personal life, but  by looking at your question, its a self esteem issue.... you say you feel like you dont match up with others, and YOU SHOULDN'T. we ALL feel this way!!! i know i used to.  but as you live life you see that you are no bettter!!! or WORSE than anyone else..   use the good marks you make in school as a propeller..  that is something to be very proud of..  take a look at other things you are good at, or show interest in, and build on it..  and if people dont like you, bases on superficial things such as what you wear, how you look, etc. they arent worth your time..   so dont let people get you down... there is too many good people out there to focus on the ones who arent..... good luck!!

Answer 4

tell yourself that your worth all these nice things every day . Say it out loud in the mirror along with the reasons that you are worth it and think positive !  

:)

Answer 5

its a matter of belief, start working on believing that u r up to everything, and its enough to check out all the good things u get, like ur good marks, crushes from hotty girls and answer that pondering question in ur mind by stating 'yes im up to it and i worth it', let all the good events in ur life be ur mirror and the proof of that u worth being worthy.

Answer 6

You really have a horrible inner dialog with yourself.

First when you have these thoughts you need to learn to laugh at yourself a little bit.  But most of all when you have these thoughts ask yourself "why not me?"  Just stop laugh at yourself and stop the dialog you are having with yourself.  

Most of all you need to see a professional counselor.  You don't say how old you are but am betting you are a teen.

Would it surprise you to know that most of the others have those thoughts also

Would it also surprise you to know that  you are on your way to being a great person with so much to offer another person that anyone would be happy to have you in their lives?