Why do I always feel like guys are predators?

Question

especially to women with more beauties? how can I stop rude guys from 'eye-rape' me? definitely no slapping, screaming, angering, kicking, punching or any other reactions as that'll excite them more (GUYS ARE CRAZY!!).this makes me feel d**n abused.

Answer 1

sounds to me like you really do not want or need a guy for now and have a hang up with the whole issue. perhaps time will change all that for you some day but tell then probably be good idea to stay back from you from the sounds of it.

so they are undressing you with there eyes, well then im sure they will at some point cross the line and that is when you report them for what ever as* nine remark they go and make. it is called sexual harassment.

Answer 2

Brace yourself for your answer. You have some problems that are based on an unrealistic attitude toward Men. Your mind has been poisoned with propaganda. First Men are primarily visually stimulated. "We are hard wired that way. Get over it if you want to have a relationship with a Man. Or simply go L*****n since Feminists are promoting Lesbianism anyway.

Eye Rape? Are you kidding me? Grow up. You have no idea what abuse is. If you live in the West, you are not given away as a Child Bride. You are not forced to live under Sharia. You don't have to wear a Bhurka. You are not circumsized as a Woman. You are not given away in an arranged Marriage. And you are not threatened with an Honor Killing.

Western Women are fed an ongoing diatribe of anti Male hatred. Men are and always will be attracted to a Woman visually. By Smell yes we are attracted to your scent too. By your Body Shape, your fertility etc. We are hard wired this way to select Women who are most fertile and can bear our children.

This is biology and is not governed by your Politically Correct assumptions or stupid beliefs. Get over it. Being looked at is not abuse. Men are looked at by Women also and evaluated. We do not care. We deal with it.

Answer 3

Oh give me a break. Another "all men are evil predators" post.  Feminists will never advance unless they drop this silly victimization stance.

Answer 4

I know what you are talking about. Most of the time I just mind my own business and then I find some guy staring at me. Actually I don't mind if they are looking into my eyes, but sometimes it's obvious when they are staring at my ***. The difference is, if they are looking at my face or eyes, they aren't ashamed and usually smile and I smile back. If I catch them staring at my *** or chest, they are embarrassed and quickly looking away. You usually know the intention and it isn't always creepy. It can be just curious, admiring or friendly sometimes.

Answer 5

Yes, it's annoying but seriously, it's human nature.  Just try and take it as a compliment.  If they say something inappropriate, just tell them to shut it.

Answer 6

"Women with more beauties"??

They are probably looking at you and thinking what a narcissist you are

lol@ 'eye-raping'

Goodness - sue us.

lmfao

Maybe they aren't looking at you in that way at all - you are just so up your own a$$ that you project it onto them because you think they SHOULD be worshipping you from afar.

get a life and concentrate on something worthwhile

Answer 7

your watching too many movies

Answer 8

You want it to be illegal for me to look at an attractive woman?

"eye-rape"?! come on! Your telling me you've never checked out a good looking guy?

You feel "abused" by these "eye rapes"

I think you need to get a life maybe?

Answer 9

Sounds like you have deeper issues you need to work on.

Yes, it can be uncomfortable...but if you are attractive..it's inevitable.

Answer 10

Always remain classy and modest in your behavior and ignore it. If someone calls you out, stand up for yourself, or if it's obvious that someone is doing it, stand up for yourself and be tough. In society in general though, just ignore it and remain with class.

Answer 11

Because, apparently, you have had the idea that all guys are predators pounded into you. You obviously hate men and think they are all evil, would-be rapists.

Look at the words you use.  "Eye-raping"? Give me a break. Are they somehow penetrating you with their eyes? Perhaps they should be blinded so they can't look at you. You seem to think that the appropriate action for them looking at you is for them to be physically assaulted, but also believe that they are somehow masochists who would get turned on by you assaulting them.

You feel abused because someone looks at you? Do you consider it abuse and "eye-rape" when you look at a guy? Or do you look at guys?  Do you find the fact men find you attractive offensive because you are L*****n and you don't want them to find you attractive? If you are a L*****n, is it abuse and eye-rape when you look at a woman?

What goes through your head? "He is looking at me! He must want to rape me! Vile, evil man! He shouldn't be allowed to look at me!"

You have severe psychological problems and should go see a psychiatrist.

Edit: You didn't answer any of the questions. You don't like it when guys look at you with lust. So, if they are just looking at you, how do you know they have lust in their heart? Or, are you taking the thoughts you believe they have and assigning those thoughts to them, thus making them guilty in your mind? Why do you hate men so much?

Do you believe you should be able to control what other people think and feel, just because those thoughts are about you?

Answer 12

Put on about 50 pounds. I guarantee no one will be "eye-raping" you then.

Answer 13

To be fair, some women do exactly the same. Except that they giggle when doing it.

Stop thinking about the guys and your focus on doing your day to day life.

EDIT

"eye raping"?

Your expresion seem to imply that the only men that are not rapist are the ones that are either g*y or asexual.

Im sure that that is not what you mean right?

Let me put it this way. All hetereosexual men that are not taking anti-depressant desire a beautiful women. But the far majority of us have enough will power and empaty to avoid raping someone.

Bottom line, you got issues that you need to discuss with your psycologist.

Answer 14

Haha where the h**l do you go?

I know how you feel though.. Being so s**y has it's price..

I think it's worth it though.

Just think about it.. I'd feel worse if the horny guys DIDN'T look at me like they want to rape me.

But seriously.. are they absolutely everywhere?

Hey I'm not like it.. and I'm at my sexual peak at like age 18.

And its not as if I'm ugly.. I used to have a "Fan Club" in high school No lie.

I might look at a pretty girl and i guess every now and again i might think.. yeah shes hot.

But I wouldn't eye rape her lol.

And i can certainly contain my raging bon-er if you scream or kick around hahahaha.

You must chill in a jail or something.. somewhere that guys havent seen a woman in years.