Why do I always get mad for no reason at my man?

Question

I never let him be mad at me for anything.

is there something wrong with me or am I just a typical woman?

Answer 1

If, as you say, your outbursts are for no reason you are simply bad tempered pain in the neck. If you want to go on using the term "my man" for much longer you need to clean your act up - and quickly.

Answer 2

First off, are they la git reasons to be upset with him or are you wanting to fight.  I had a boyfriend once that i wasn't happy with and he brought out the worst side of me, is this happening to you?  If this isnt happening, maybe you should get some anger management classes.

Answer 3

Oh, you'd like that, wouldn't you. To be told it's okay, that it's just "being a woman." Seriously, let me guess. When you get over your mad, it feels like that was someone else throwing a fit? Right? If so, that means two things. One is that you're not just all around mean or crazy. But there's some stuff in there in your head that needs to be taken out and looked at. It's a job of finding out what it is. The nice thing is, that, although  it sounds real hard to do, it's not. It does take some work with a pro. A decent clinical psychologist is good. Even better is both of you go. Really, really works, if you really, really don't like what you're doing.  

Answer 4

Maybe he isn't yours to begin with? :)

No man is worth any woman's tears. :)

Answer 5

I find myself doing that too lately. I'll take something small and usually meaningless and fume over it for a day and then he'll show up at my door and kiss me and I forget why I was so pissed off. I hate that. But usually I'm overreacting about something ridiculous. I think men just drive us crazy without trying, especially the ones we love.  

Answer 6

I get like that sometimes, too.  It seems like we disregard the feelings of those closest to us the most, when we should be caring the most about how they feel and how we treat them.  I think too many women forget that men have feelings too (because they don't often show much emotion) and we simply get to over-involved with ourselves sometimes.  I'm trying to cut him some slack right now, and just hold my tongue when I begin to feel angry at him.  I think if we can make some effort, the problem will get better.

Answer 7

Perhaps your pregnant.

Answer 8

Ugh, its happened to me so many times, and to all of my friends, it's a mixture of all of our hormones and being around that one person, and talking to them all the time.

Answer 9

What did he do in the past that makes you think about that every time that you get mad?  Are mad because he did something that you haven't mentioned to him yet?  Ask yourself those questions and get to the bottom of it because it's not fair for him for you to be mad at him for no reason.