Why do I feel less manly when I am nice and polite?

Question

If i were to take charge and were to say

"yes Debra we should definately look into that"

instead of

"yeah man, sounds good"

why do i come off feeling less manly?

Answer 1

  Yeah man because you are less manly . Woman want you to talk like they do . Isnt going to be long before they put you in a dress

Answer 2

Being polite and using proper English make you feel less manly? Then you are one of those idiots that feel looking tough, farting and burping makes you a real man.

Answer 3

well first off i dont think debra is a man. either phrase sounds like you are equal in the decision. being a man doesnt mean always taking control and doing things your way. there is a balance between having input and being a door mat.  

Answer 4

Hmmm....maybe u like to take charge! Nothing wrong with that! Just dont let it go to ur head!

Answer 5

You mean, you feel more like a "Gentle Man."  That's a good thing!

Answer 6

not sure but you like to be a lil head strong and I like when my bf is more nice and polite than manly

Answer 7

me more manly.

be abit of an a***e.

got to be man dude.

Answer 8

Because men in media are portrayed as dumbazzes.  Stay nice and polite, it's more a chick magnet than saying, "Yeah."  The second option sounds dumb.  You shouldn't feel less manly if you want to sound intelligent.