Why do I feel like I am ugly?

Question

I am a 21 yr old guy, I used to be very confident even though I know I didn't exactly look that good but I used to get girls looking my way. I am tall and have a well toned body but my face has acne which I am trying to take care of. If I take care of my skin I look fairly average maybe a little below but I don't mind. I just feel really ugly and people keep telling me that I am and it is getting to me. Could I have been ugly all of these years without knowing it?

Answer 1

If you think you are ugly,  then you are ugly.  You should love yourself,  and you accept what you have,  who do you think will love yourself,  except you only.  You need to focus on the positive way,  what if you are good looking person,   but your character and attitudes are bad,  it makes you a bad person.  Do not let people put you down or destroy what is good in you.  I know everybody had their own beauty,  so do not worry about what you look,  the most important thing is your personality inside of you.

I hope you will appreciate for what God has given to you and use them wisely.  Be proud of yourself and love yourself,  accept what you have,  do not let people put you down.

Answer 2

Nah, People are Just Mean, they think ther job is to make everyone feel as crappy as they do... Everyone has ther insecurities... Acne happens to everyone! Dont feel bad. Im sure your Adorable :)

Answer 3

Yes. Sorry, the truth is, you are ugly.

Answer 4

The true beauty of an individual is what is inside, not the outside appearence, you could look like Brad Pitt but if you have an ugly attitude than your ugly. You sound like a nice guy, go and get you some Proactive to make your acne better and you will feel better more self-assured.

As to the jerks calling you ugly, well, my hunch is that you have something they don't (..pecks?!) and the other guys are trying to psych you out. Don't fall for it, be yourself and you will find happiness.

Guardianofthemoon

Answer 5

You need confidence!  Tony Robbins was told that.  He is a tall hottie. You don't give yourself enough credit.  

Answer 6

Probably.

Treat your acne first, and you wil look better.(maybe more handsome!)

Answer 7

As we say in my Country Belarus: young man who drive stick good, he fine young man ;)

Answer 8

Let me be honest and frank with you, am not an expert but I will try and hope it will help you. You are not ugly, you are who you are, NO ONE KNOWS YOU EXCEPT YOURSELF.  So wake up dude, chec your hair cut, howz it compared with the shape of your face, howz your dressing, what cream are you using, are you confident........dont let people expire you before they inspire you, have FAITH, you are the most handsome guy on earth ever.  Just try and check your hair cut, kind of dressing, etc and gain confidence and tell your self 'NO ONE KNOWS ME EXCEPT MYSELF' so that way no one can tell you how you look like because you know yourself in and out...............YOU ARE GODS IMAGE ALL BEINGS CREATED BY GOD ARE FEARFULLY AND WONDERFULLY MADE......................SO GET UP AND DO SOME SHAKY BODY REVIVAL CHANGE YOU ARE VERY HANDSOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

Its certainly possible that you've been ugly all this time, but its even more likely that you've gradually became more ugly as you aged.

But don't feel bad, girls like a sense of humor,then money, then your appearances.

Some extremely ugly guys get laid

Answer 10

so dont listen to anyone ,only listen to ur heart what ur heart say,in love or in life face does not matter.

Answer 11

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholders (yeah, it's not just a saying it has a lot of truth to it)

Answer 12

Beauty is only skin deep, but ugliness goes straight to the bone.  Just be confident.

Answer 13

yes..

but as long as you love yourself, and you are a good person, you will find someone who loves you for you.. not your complexion.

h**l, look around.

Weve all seen some UGLY mo fos with decent looking wifes..

You cant be uglier then some of them

Answer 14

Yeah thats just one of those problems we gotta live with it.I dont exactly look good and from time to time people make jokes of me but i dont care really. Just find ways to make urself look ur best. I find gettin a good haircut and growning some facial hair makes me look good so i just do that all the time.

Answer 15

most think of them seleves as ugly dont post apic of your self on answers and ask people to give there opinion and they will be honest

Answer 16

your self concious. If people decide to make fun of you tell them that is really great that they figured out a flaw in you, that you've known about forever. Dont let people get to you. Everyones beautiful. Look in the mirror and see all the greater things about you. In your description, it sound like you have more pros than cons.

Answer 17

you' re always looking at the mirror mate.

Answer 18

No, you're not ugly!! be yourself...girls love you...whoever saying you're ugly..that person is actually ugly..lol :)

Answer 19

NOOOOOOO youre not ugly. dont be like that to yourself. just be confident with yourself and do some work on those acnes. and dude, lets keep it real.. how many times have you actually saw an average looking dude get a really hot chick/s? its all about how you do your thang. practice dedication and hardwork is also needed in dating you know..

Answer 20

learn how to love yourself and accept yourself which will make you more confident of yourself and girls like that and they will come to you....

Answer 21

well, don't give a sh*t what people say about you. just be yourself and be confident. some good looking boys are jerks cuz they think they are god that everyone needs to kneel down and worship them.  

Answer 22

ask your mother and have trust on she says.