Why do I feel like my twin is better than me?

Question

Hi i've got a twin sister and pretty much every feature is similar but she is a smaller weight than I am and has bigger b***s. I don't understand. We both eat quite alot of junk food but I eat healthier meals like cereals and chicken salads, she'll have loads of takeaways and hardly eat anything healthy. But I don't understand because although I do more exercise and eat healthier she has a flat tummy, whereas I have abit of a bump on mine. Also, she has bigger b***s although she is a smaller weight. It's upsetting me lately, because it seems as though every feature she has is better than mine (better body, hair, skin, personality...) Why is she slimmer when her lifestyle is not healthy as mine and why does it feel to me as though she is like 10x better than me? It even seems like our friends prefer her to me.. Help please! =[

Answer 1

First of all, don't even think about comparing yourself to your twin sister, just because you feel that she's better than you! You shouldn't think about yourself that way! Just because your sister doesn't eat healthy at all, has a smaller frame, and has bigger b***s that doesn't mean that she's a lot more prettier than you! Also, you have to understand that everyone is different and has different body shapes and sizes. Everyone isn't the same. Also, your friends shouldn't play favoritism and taking on the role of "preferential treatment" because that's not fair to anyone and no one deserves to get hurt! You should be proud at the fact that you are taking a stand to make changes within your livelihood and also determined to live a healthy lifestyle. Besides, you should love and accept your body and being proud of what you have instead of wasting your time on being jealous of your twin sister.