Why do I feel so......at a young age?

Question

Lately, since the first time I had s*x, I have been feeling really sexual. Sometimes I think I may need to see a doctor or something for it. I want to talk to my mom about it, but I am so freaking afraid to. And dad is for sure out of the question.

I don't know what's wrong with me. My friend told me that it's a phase. But this phase is really scaring me. Who else can I talk to? And I know this question will probably get deleted but I am really desperate right now. Who can I turn to? I m********e very often, but that is not right either...

The school counselor can't even tell me anything that remotely fits the help that I need. She keeps saying that she wants to schedule a meeting with my parents. I am not going for that. My dad would choke me out.

Someone...PLEASE HELP ME!!!

Answer 1

You are absolutely normal, your friend is right. Do you have more guy friends you could discuss this with. I don't think it either that a school counselor can help by meeting with your parents.

Answer 2

You had s*x and liked it and want more....it is perfectly normal.  It isn't a phase it is human nature to enjoy s*x once you have it and want to do it again.  By the way, masturbation is not wrong either.  Pretty much everyone does it.  I think you are worrying about absolutely nothing.

Answer 3

Although you say you are a young age, you haven't actually said how old you are, which would affect the way I would answer this question!

One other thing - you say "I m********e very often, but that is not right either" - do you mean that it's not he solution to your particular problem, or that it's not right for you to m********e? There's nothing wrong with masturbating, it is nothing to be ashamed of as long as it is in the privacy of your own room or somewhere that you're not going to be disturbed, and it's a healthy part of life. Just in case you meant the latter!  

Answer 4

I don't think there's anything wrong with you. Everyone goes through periods of time where they feel more like that than they are used to. Hormones go up and down, and because you recently had s*x for the first time, I would expect you to be thinking about it more... at least for a while.

You might also still feel at least a little guilty about what happened with your brother, so it might be that. I'm sure that it's on your mind a lot, even when you don't realize it.

I think you should wait a couple of weeks or maybe a month. Try not to worry about it too much. I think the more you worry about it, the worse it'll get. If it doesn't get better in that amount of time, then you can try finding a counselor (not in school) that you can talk to. And like someone else said, if you mean that masturbation isn't a good thing to do... there's nothing wrong with it. Masturbating is a very good way to make that horny feeling go down, and it makes your mood better, too :)

Try not to think it's weird (I don't think it is from what you've told us), m********e as much as you want, and I think that feeling should go down a lot in the near future :)

Answer 5

The word is >horny<.  Guys go through the same hormone-crazed stage that girls do, and beleive it or not, you are completely normal.  Self-pleasure is a natural way of relieving the stress that the hormones are giving you.  

(from dad) as long as you don't injure yourself with friction burns or not keeping that area clean, go ahead and relieve your sexual tension safely.  It's going t o be emabarrassing, but expect to get a 'stiffie' at the most inopportune times at first as well.  You don't need a shrink, you just need time to adjust to the new hormones.

Answer 6

Walk around your neighboorhood and talk to kids your age.

Play sports at the community center.

The main thing is to talk to other people in your nieghborhood and keep your mind not so lonely cuz if that happns you will keep feeling how you are.Or just take a walk around the suburbs.

Hope that helps.

Later

Answer 7

your completely normal.

it's just your hormones.  

Answer 8

talk to a male teacher or something

Answer 9

I USE TO BE LIKE THAT.

JUST HAVE s*x W/ UR BOYFREIND THATS WHT I DID

AND AFTER WE DID IT I STARTED TO GET TIRED OF IT

SO NOW I DONT EVEN LIKE TO DO THAT ANYMORE.

Answer 10

ITS hormones bby!