Why do I feel so bad?

Question

My best friend called me in April of last year & told me that she was pregnant. A few days later I found out I was pregnant also. How exciting? Our kids would be about a week apart, but she had an abortion & my daughter is now 7 months old. I feel so bad when I send her pictures of my daughter because she had the abortion.

Answer 1

That was your friends choice and you have your daughter now,if your friend did not want pics she would tell you not to send them.

Answer 2

There is no need to feel guilty. She CHOSE to have the abortion, so why would you feel guilty?  

Your sending her pictures out of love, nothing else, so there is no reason to feel guilty. I wouldn't worry about it.

Answer 3

If she is ur best friend then there is no need to worry. may be this gives her pleasure.

Answer 4

She chose to have the abortion. She could of kept the child and enjoyed sending photos back n forth between the two of you. Dont feel bad at all.

Answer 5

That was her decision to make not yours. You are enjoying the decision you made and you want to share that with your loved ones.