Why do I feel so sad when I wake up from this dream?

Question

I've had this type of dream twice in the past few years. I dream that I'm married to the most wonderful guy. He cares about me and we're so in love. The first time I had this dream, it was to a blond and blue-eyed guy. It was Christmas at my house and we just sat in my living room looking at the beautiful Christmas tree and he told me turn down my iPod or I would go deaf. Yeah, he cared, I guess. Then, I had the last dream when I was in Hawaii but it was a different guy with brown hair and brown eyes. We were so in love and we bought a nice little house and everything. Both times I woke up, I felt seriously sad because in that dream, I was so happy! Do you think it's a sign that maybe I'll be as happy in real life someday? I'm 15 years old and I'm not sexually active so it's hardly repression. I just want to know how it's possible to feel such strong emotions in a dream with someone you've never met before. I've also heard it could be a key to one's past life. You dream about people that were important to you and that you had serious relationships with. Any help? Thanks!

Answer 1

I understand what you mean,I have the same dreams too where you are with one person and it seems so real and you are madly in love...But then you wake up and realize that it was just a dream and you wish it was real then you tend to feel so sad and depressed etc

but as the day goes on you kind of forget about it because of your daily routines.

Maybe those dreams are sign of good things to come or maybe those dreams portray things you really and truly desire.

Answer 2

Miss I advise you that this is just a theory and shouldnt be taken seriously unless your certain it relates to you.

1. Many girls have your problem, its called wanting to love which is something thats perfectly normal but see when it comes to dreams, which are technically a way of showing to ourselves something we want, physically/emotionally, or it could be a simple premonition. Your dreams state that you feel an urge to get that perfect guy and have a beautiful life with him but see whats the hurry with something like that if your just 15, life throws you many chances when it comes to relationships and no its not sexual repression, and no its not a past life, and no its not anything from your past or of your past past's life. It is just you, just you who dreams of the perfect guy that romantic comedies show each time a new one appears which sadly has turned the world's female population into a demented state which seeks for the so called perfect guy so early, (about starting your age many girls have s*x thinking they've already found the perfect guy and want to give in so that they can supposedly be with them forever) which is one way many people can take advantage of the situation you have. Believe me miss, im 16 and I had a relationship at the age of 12 with a girl i promised i would marry after college but life threw me a hard ball and now i havent seen her for about 4 years. How do you think i feel when i wake up crying because i dreamt about her? Just, just believe me when im saying that your, not the only one in this predicament...

Raxer

Answer 3

maybe because its a subconscious sign of your loneliness

Answer 4

you were happy in your dream and when you woke up you realized it is just a dream and it was over.