Why do I feel this way about my wife?

Question

When I was in college, I once walked into my roommate having s*x with a woman. Since then, this image has been a fantasy when I have experimented with sexual gratification through masturbation. I have now been married for two years. I thought my addiction to fantasy would end after I was married and had a normal s*x life going. But I still having fantasies of my friend having sexual intercourse with other women. Sometimes I will even m********e instead of having s*x with my wife. Last month my friend stayed at my house for one night and from then onwards my fantasy has taken a new turn. My biggest and most persistent fantasy is the idea of my wife getting it by this guy. Imagining my friend pleasuring my attractive wife is intensely exciting to me. Have any of you been through something similar? Why do I feel this way?

Answer 1

You need to stop she is your wife not a s*x toy

If you walked in on them haven s*x you would be hurt

You need to take a look into reality!

Answer 2

if my husband and his friend talked about me like that i would be very hurt! talk to her about it

Answer 3

Sounds like you've stopped seeing your wife as a person, the person you married, and now see her as a s*x object or toy.

It also sounds like you have watched your share of p**n.

Real life isn't like that. If you walked in on your friend and your wife having s*x, a normal reaction would be jealousy and anger.

I think you need to stop spending so much time fantasizing and start seeing your wife as a real person, with emotions.

I'm glad I'm not  your wife. And be careful, because if she finds out, she might not be your wife for long.

Answer 4

This is weird.

What if your friend runs off with your wife?

I would keep my fantasy thoughts to myself if I were you.

Answer 5

My husband and I have used such fantasies to enrich our s*x life. We don't try to make the fantasies real, but letting our minds roam during s*x spices things up allot. Our personal agreement is, "It doesn't matter what gets the ball rolling as long as it stops rolling at home."

Answer 6

O God, west is so perverted.

Answer 7

have a 3some......maybe you'll like it

GOOD LUCK