Why do I get more hate from my own people?

Question

i never had a problem with a white person...the blacks is who i have problems with. Maybe its where I'm from (DC) but I never had a problem with a white person. they are nice and courteous to me, hold doors, say hi, thank you, I like your hair. They give me jobs, this one nice white lady gave me a deal on a car when no one else would...and this white g*y man let me have my apt with out meeting all the qualifications. Not with blacks...they are rude and nasty to me...don't have manners, wanna fight and steal my car. throw trash and litter all over the grounds where i live, wouldn't consider me for a car loan...hate that I wear my hair natural...said would like me better if I had a weave...laugh at me for using correct english and being diverse and well-rounded.

Answer 1

everywhere you go people are stereotyped.  Seems maybe some blacks in D.C. appear a little rough around the edges- its generational, its environment, upbringing, etc. ...its hard to break out of that cycle when you are brought up in that environment.  

(I am not from D.C., but have lived in Maryland for many years...I know what you mean though).  

Blacks that have grown up in a particular environment expect to have "their own" act and be a certain way (like them) and when you dont fit that profile...well, you know the rest.

Just be who you are and break the mold.  

Answer 2

Attitude often reveals the heart of frustration, hate, with emotions built up over time.  Lacking Love and understandings for others, because self is the only thing that maters in there own world of isolation from God.  No mater witch race.

Answer 3

Well I think you have just had bad luck with your run ins with the black people. I know there are a lot of ignorant white people also. I don't think it has to do with race but rather the way you were brought up and educated.  

Answer 4

me in agreement with you. i hate america

Answer 5

I get laughed at for using correct english and being well rounded as well.  My mom did too.  They told her she would talk "white".  lol

Sounds like the black people you deal with are jealous.  Keep doing what you do.  Just don't generalize and think that all of us are like that.

Answer 6

Most people are that way because how they were raise up by there parents or guardian, but don't look at thing that way, sometimes we have to show people luv, keep a positive heart, i really understand how you feel, but pray for people like that because all are not the same.

Answer 7

Britney? lol well am white and my own race has never opened the door for me or liked my hair and they give you jobs.........wow sounds like you do maid work or labor to be going from job to job.  LOL yup this is briney because you are a g*y white male in real life...you suck...why don't you ask questions with your own gender for once?

Sorry sweetie..........you are Britney sorry about Tyra not liking g*y people.she told me

Answer 8

What can I say,there are stupid *** white people too (plenty)

Answer 9

i think the same as you not trying to be racist or anything but there is a lot of different people.like not all the blacks are like that[that i know]and not all the white people here are so nice specially because i am not white or black

Answer 10

Its all about the race, see the blacks are more the thuggish type and whites are the more professional. You have more black thugs than white ones, so the blacks would be the bigger problem. The whites see everything as making their lives better and trying to help yours at the same time, but blacks only care for themselves. Its a selfish thing.

Answer 11

Because u have to see it from their point of veiw. They probably womder why u cant be true to urself and who you are and ppl can find that very insulting. But i do understand you though. But dont judge a book by its cover because us white grls can be mean b*tches too

Answer 12

well certainly not all black people you come in contact with are like this eh? thats inpossible. I think u may be exaggerating a bit honey. Also consider its the people you are surrounded by you know, like maybe they are uneducated people and ignorant to things. Also, there are a lot of people that have no self esteem and feel they cant do better,they think all black people are supossed to be that way,so they hate to make themselves feel better. They dont mean it. They just dont know what else to do.