Why do I get picked on?

Question

I'm never mean to anyone. Kids talk about me and put me down. It makes me feel really bad about myself. I know I'm different but I have feelings too. They tell me I'm ugly and I'm going to die alone. I'm in high school

Answer 1

Hey you, listen to me, you go out and hold your head up, there is nothing wrong with you it is the others who are nasty and bullying you that have the problem. please listen to me and ignore them cos it has taken me years to learn that it is not me. You are wonderful. I learnt to hold an imaginary mirror up in front of me and that really helped, it reflected their bad behaviour back on to them. take care.

Answer 2

your picked on because you probably are someone they see as weak or someone with low self esteem that they see as 'easy prey'.. I was picked on to, only I was the 'fat, blind, crazy chick'  trust me, it can be painful, hurtful, & I've tried to commit suicide over it (and other reasons I just won't get into).

However when someone picks on you hun it's not cuz 'your ugly & your going to 'die alone' its because they have a S****y outlook on their own life & only feel better when they make others feel worse.

If they are going to talk about you, tell them they must feel real good about themselves now that they have talked you down. Don't let anyone do that sweety, I bet your a beautiful girl with qualities & charm all your own

- hugs from one picked on girl to another -  

Answer 3

Bullies bully to make themselves feel better, to get attention. They mostly pick on the shy or people they think wont fight back...there is NOTHING wrong with you, its the bullies who have the problem...

Answer 4

I'm going to tell you a secret of the laws of the Universe.

We all create everything that happens to us - don't take this personally, it happens to us all.

A law called "The Law of Attraction" works by giving us, without fail, whatever we focus on, or give attention to.

So, guess what you are focusing on and giving attention to?

What you need to do is change the way you think about things.

You need to start changing your thoughts to what it would be like if everything was beautiful at school. FEEL how it would be if everyone loved you and wanted to be your friend. Do not let up with this - do it all the time, no matter what happens to you.

Things will start to change around you as the Universe starts to give what you are NOW (your changed thoughts) focusing on. Do not let negative thoughts stay in your mind. Make a list of all the good things at school and read those when you are feeling down.

peacefromken.

Answer 5

well i just took a look at ur profile, and u seem pretty cool 2 me. i dunno y they would do that. but they are prob just insecure about themselves. u r NOT gunna die alone! if u just keep up that wonderful personality of urs, then u will be fine. dont worry!

Answer 6

don,t feel alone dear! i was like that in school too. kids would make fun of me and say mean things about me. there is nothing, i repeat, nothing wrong with you, it,s just that if your not in the incrowd like they say, then your a outcast. there has always been bullys in schools as long as i can remember. all i can tell you is keep your head raised and say to yourself, i,am just as good or better then they are and pick your own friends and hang out. don,t give up on yourself and keep going. you know what, you probably will be the 1 that will get ahead in life. i hope what i tell you will be a inspiration to you to just ignore them.

Answer 7

Don't worry about it! Once u finish high school you will never have to look at their fugly mugs again! ^.^

They're only trying to make you feel bad cos they're pathetic and they feel like c**p and want to make everyone else like them.

Just ignore them, there's nothing wrong with you

Answer 8

HAHA. Don't worry about it.  I was bullied alot in high school.  Here is something that will make you feel better (print this and hold onto it until your first reunion, trust me it comes fast):

All the kids who pick on you, the jocks, the hot chicks, etc. will all be losers the second they graduate. Trust me!

You'll run into these idiots a few years from now, and they'll either be knocked up, in a low paying job, or a drop out.

And unless you're a loser too, you will turn into one of the most desired people around (if being picked on really bothers you). You see, people who get bullied or picked on eventually start defending themselves and soon want to be the popular type. But since we've been picked on in the process, we tend to turn out better in the long run.

Answer 9

aww don't worry sweety. don't tell yourself you are ugly, your emotions might take control and make yourself feel that way, but don't get yourself down. In what ways are you different? Maybe you should talk to someone or a teacher for help. socialize a little, maybe join a youth club or something. xxxxxxx

Answer 10

Why are you listening to these a$$holes,bullies always get their comeuppance in the end,ignore them they'll move on to someone else as soon as they realize your not taking the bait.Or smack the leader in the mouth,usually bullies go for the weakest person,show them your not weak,or alternatively talk to a teacher,don't suffer in silence,talk to someone.

Answer 11

Do not listen to them they are just a**holes. They have to make you feel Inferior just to make themselves feel Superior.

Bullies are jerks they think that they are the only ones that can do anything. There is not anything wrong with you. Do not let them no how much it hurts you, or they will keep picking on you. Bullies are scared of a person being different meaning they are (jealous). I wish you luck and hope the best for you.

Answer 12

Don't let yourself get put down by people who aren't even worth your time.

People who pick on other people don't have a life.

I know its hard to ignore them but don't stoop down to their level, be yourself, what goes around comes around it's karma maybe not today or tomorrow but believe me they will get what they deserve.

Its not bad to be different in fact its what will get you somewhere in life. Dont live your life by what other people tell you You WONT die alone unless YOU choose, your life is what you make of it. dont throw it away.  You will see in a few years from now you will be doing what you love to do with people you love to hang out with and those people who made fun of you will be more miserable than you could ever imagine!

Dont live off other peoples expectations of beauty everyone is unique and beautiful in their own way those people who tell you you arent pretty are ugly. because even if they are so superficial it is always the heart and personality that count.

so really dont get worked up over this high school is only four years i know it sounds like a long time but it really isnt.

do what you want to do if you like sports go for it or if you like art join a  program surround yourself with things and people you like and dont listen to the people who put you down if you ignore them they will eventually go away.

they only pick on you because they are bored with their pathetic life.

keep your head up life is only going to get better!