Why do I hate being by my family and or at home??

Question

lately i have been very crabby and pissy tward my family just little thigs they do are enough to set me off. i always feel that i was born into the wrong family because i always seem like the odd one out like once i was doing chores on the farm and they went boating with out me.. i am always much more happy when i am on the trails with my horse but then as soon as i come home i hate everyone.. any one have any idea what is up with me??

Answer 1

You just feel bore that's all.  You should make a space for a while.  So you will miss them and maybe you are just tired of doing chores.  Just have a vacation for a while and remember never think of negative things against your family that would start  disliking them.  

Answer 2

your being a teenager. im going through the same thing.

Answer 3

sort of.

growing up means figuring out who you are, separate from your family, and how you fit into your community on your own terms.

so it could be that.

if you're a 12 year old girl who has never menstruated, i'd say, you may be PMSing for a bit (could last a while). in other words, it might be partly biological.

if you're an older teen 16-18, it might be time for you to think about how you're going to move out.

all that said, you say i "always feel." that might mean that you're a little depressed, particularly if sometimes you burst into tears for no reason or feel like hitting things. in that case you should see your doctor. either ask your parent to take you, or call them yourself, that's fine.

you want to talk to see a cognitive therapist, as that's the most effective way to treat depression without medication and it might not be much depression at all, particularly since school is going to start soon, which is stressful for everyone!

Answer 4

It's odd that your family would do something without you but how you are feeling is very common. Just wait until you move out, you'll start to really get to know them, love them and appreciate them-from afar!  

Answer 5

i think thats because you feel lefted out. or maybe u just like being by yourself.

and if u still hate being with your family, then just avoid them.