Why do I hate myself and my life

Question

Ok so I haven't been feeling very well lately. I am 19 and currently have no job, no boyfriend, no friends and practically no life at all. I am just at home every day by myself and I feel so worthless and lazy, I just don't feel motivated to do things and spend my days basically doing nothing. It's difficult to get to sleep at night and so don't wake up til late, and then I find it hard to get out of bed in the mornings because I know the day ahead will be lonely and boring.

I feel so ugly and stupid, and I find it hard to remember short term things. I feel so out of place and that I will never have a purpose in life, nobody will want me and am just a waste of people's time..

I understand that this is not healthy, and I dont know what you would call it, but I do want to experience happiness and love of life & people again (which I haven't felt since I was a young teenager I think). How can I do this?

Answer 1

It sounds like you need some direction in your life.  Just sitting around at home thinking about doing things will get you down every time.  You can't feel good about yourself, if you don't get involved in something productive.  You can't possibly expect to meet new friends or find a boyfriend unless you get out and do things as well.

The idle life you are leading is also starting to make you depressed.  That would explain the short term memory loss and sleeping issues.  This may get worse if you don't get involved in something soon.

I can't give you much advice from your question because I don't know what you like or are interested in?  I don't know what your talents or skills are?  I don't know if you have any means to get around?  I don't know if you have tried to get into college, or if you even want to go to college?  I don't know what goals you have ever had for your life?

There really isn't enough information to offer you any suggestions on how to try and dig out of your current rut.  Perhaps you can post another, more detailed question on your current situation?

Answer 2

hmm.

Maybe try to give yourself a makeover.

That makes you feel refreshed and new..

like a brand new toy :)

Then go get yourself a job :)

You have the power to do things!

So use it!

Go the the mall and make friends.

Go get yourself a boyfriend!

Also if your really lonely,go call up your parents :)

Answer 3

You are not ugly or stupid. I don't know what your purpose is, but I am sure you have one. You just haven't found it ...yet. Please see a doctor to get you back on your feet. In the meantime, be your own best friend. Take care of yourself by eating healthy, exercising, getting adequate sleep, and having a hobby or interest that you like. This is a slump you are in but it is temporary. Please see a doctor and get started planning your life and doing things you enjoy.  

Answer 4

girl your perfect

what is wrong with you, NOTHING !!!

if you want a boyfriend call me

i dont find a flaw with you and everyday you should wake up feeling happy to be here because the world is blessed to have you

take care sweetheart

Answer 5

Do me this favor before you judge yourself. Ask anybody who is 18-19 or 27-28 or 36-37 or 45-46.....years of age and you will get the same answer. This 1 year period starts from your 18 year birthday till the 19 year birthday.

Most common problems faced is no friends, no money, close relatives and other people complaining, bad timing in anything you do. accidents, health problems, breakups in relationship etc etc.

The only way to get the better of this situation is to love everything around you, especially yourself. God is LOVE , LIGHT and LIFE  

Answer 6

Please get in touch with someone in the area of mental health. You need help.