Why do I have a hard time quitting my job?

Question

I work at a store, so it's not like my future career or anything, but when I was hired, I had said that I wasn't a student, and therefore could work anytime.

My life has changed, however in the last few months and now I go to school full-time as a nursing student.

I work 2 days during the week, which isn't bad, but now that my husband works nightshift, I have to take the bus home, which requires me to wait at a bus station for over an hour late at night (our bus system sucks).

Anyway, I am scared at night, especially since it's a bad part of town and also, I'm exhausted in the morning when I get to school.

I just feel bad about having to quit, like I'm letting my manager down.

I know I'm completely replaceable, but still....

Answer 1

You are having a hard time because you are a nice person and you made a commitment and you feel bad about not being able to honor it at this time.  Things change all the time and managers know this best.  Give him the proper two weeks and that is all you can do.  Pat yourself on the back for being a good person.

Answer 2

You are probably a very conscientious and dependable person who would never willingly place someone else in a compromising position.  All of these qualities are quite admirable, and also make you an outstanding employee.  

Perhaps if you explain to your manager the same reasons you have stated here, I am sure your manager will completely understand, and appreciate your conscientious attitude.  Although all of us are replaceable, few are unforgettable.  Your dedication will probably always be remembered by your manager.

Best wishes with your decision.