Why do I have depression immediately following s*x?

Question

It is absolutely horrible. My boyfriend will finish and I will immediately start bawling my eyes out about something. It's not a guilt thing (at least not consciously)... what is it?

Answer 1

I don't know...maybe it is your partner's lovemaking that makes you cry...it sounds like it feels so good that you don't want to stop, perhaps?

Answer 2

None of us can answer how you feel about your BF.  I am assuming that you have had relations with other guys.  Did you have the same problems with them?

Answer 3

Maybe it's cause your not ready yet or you feel guilty for doing it. It could also be that you know your not doing it with the right guy(:

Answer 4

Usually its because you come down from that high. It's not uncommon for that to happen.

Answer 5

I don't know about your boyfriend not being the right one; that may be the simple answer.

Another possible answer follows from my views on s*x, which most people do not like. I see s*x as a natural function naturally aimed at impregnation. It is well-known that sperm contains hormones that make a woman feel happy. Of course you may not use a condom but the pill, for instance, but the pill also seriously ***** up your hormonal balance, possibly neutralising the positive effects of the hormones contained in the sperm. The basic fact is that a woman gets happy when there is sperm in her v****a while she is fertile. Of course that obviously points to what I've defined as the natural aim of s*x. I think the s*x drive, properly understood, is the drive toward natural impregnation (compare the phrase "artificial insemination").

P.S.: "supposed to be fun"? No, it's supposed (intended, by Nature) to make you pregnant! Sexual pleasure is a means to that end.

Answer 6

Unless you are married you will feel gult. God wants you to get married if you are going to have s*x.

Answer 7

Did you o****m? Sometimes the guy finsihes too soon. I always make sure I satisfy her first.

Answer 8

hormones maybe

Answer 9

if you have been doubting it and you don't feel satisfied emotionally, not physically, then he is probably not the right guy.

s*x is not just about the physical part of it.  it's very emotional.

i know what you are going through.  i dated a guy for almost 2 years and i never felt satisfied after it.  but i ended up breaking it off because i knew he wasn't the right guy....it wasn't just the s*x.