Why do I keep having nightmares about my wife cheating on me?

Question

I know she probably isn't but we really don't have the relationship we used to have, she spends a bunch of time on my space and her cell phone and I just feel a little ignored.

Answer 1

The dreams that you have at night pretty much sum up what you are worried about or what has been on your mind.

You're nervous that because the relationship is different and she spends time on the internet a lot, that she is cheating on you. You may not truly believe it, but it's definitely a fear of yours because of her actions and the lack of attention.

I would talk to her about it. It could be that she doesn't feel that you're very amorous to her, so she doesn't return the favor. Do you guys go on dates very often? If not, take her out on a date at least once a week and romance her. Most marriages get into ruts because people stop dating each other and just coexist.