Why do I keep having these thoughts ?

Question

Alright, I know I'm not crazy or nothing. But I just keep having these disturbing thoughts of my ex girlfriend having s*x with another dude. Now I know I'm not with her or anything and its alright for her to do her thing. But just the thought of someone else doing that to her makes me fustrated. I'm only human and I have emotions just like the next person. Can anyone else tell me why do I feel this way. Also are there any other people out there who can relate.???

Answer 1

It means you still love and care for her, like when I think about my girl having it off with another dude makes me frustrated also and I love her deeply, which means u still love your ex deeply too, I would talk to her and tell her your having these feelings.

Answer 2

Sounds like you still have feelings for her. These feelings should go away with time. It's only human to think of the person you were with to be with someone else.. let alone be part of an intimate act that you thought was sacred to just the two of you. If you were together for a while this is normal.. if it wasn't that long of a relationship then this might be a good reason to realize why s*x too early just makes things worse half the time.

Answer 3

you still like her...  

Answer 4

Yes dude. U still love her...!

Answer 5

Apparently, you aren't over her.

Answer 6

Your feelings are obsessive and possessive.  You can't stand the thought of her being physical or being happy with anyone else.  It's not healthy.  You need to emotionally release her from your heart and your mind and wish her well in all future relationships.  It will be hard, but keep trying it.  Set aside the disturbing thoughts and replace them with thoughts of her being happy.  You will then have created the space in your heart and mind for a new, loving girlfriend in your life.