Why do I keep looking up my ex on myspace?

Question

I still search my ex's name on myspace and just look at his picture even though it's on private. I am definately over him and I've dumped him 4 months ago. I have a new boyfriend now. He did hurt me and almost took my virginity when I didn't want to. And he eventually deleted me as a friend off myspace a week after I dumped him. Everytime I look at his picture, I get this nervous feeling.

Answer 1

i did that too but try not going on myspace

for a while. I you do go on only go on for short periods of time.

remeber never to give yourself false hope and just be happy with your new bf. or if your new bf just isnt for you give yourself a break and be single and have fun!

Answer 2

Trust me your not over him!

Answer 3

that's normal, i did it too after my most recent major break up. maybe you just haven't let go completely?

Answer 4

It's completely normal for that to happen. It's like you might say you are over him and want him out of your life, but you still want to see what he is doing and see what girls he is talking to. That is what happened to me. I would look up his myspace, search all the girls and see what he was saying, and then get a nervous feeling all over again. I had to stop going on myspace and i havent gone on since april 2nd.... Trust me it helps not to go on for awhile and take time just not thinking about him. Plus you have a lot more free time to search other things on the internet.  

Answer 5

its just an obsessive compulsive habit. you're not really over him but you wil be eventually. try making a goal to delete him off ur favs and not log into myspace everyday..find other things to do like chillen with ur new BF

Answer 6

You're obviously NOT over him.

Answer 7

ITs normal I do it! I guess it just gives a since of sercurity of something like that but hey!

Answer 8

obviously you are not over him.... if you were over him then you would be able to think about him and talk about him and just think of him as being another person. Of course you will always remember the memories that you two shared; but once you get over him that is all it will be is memories.... not feelings.... I can think of any of my ex's and the memories that we shared and laugh... but that is all it is... i feel nothing like i used to .... nothing like i feel with my husband.... the way you are acting is normal until you can get over him....  

Answer 9

totally normal.

i do it too.

your probably still attracted to him.

Best of Luck :]