Why do I love him so much?

Question

I was married for 8+ years. I hate him... and dont think I ever truely loved him. I was in relationships before and had good times, but that was really it. I met someone that I click with. We are like PEA's and CARROT's. Crazy!!! I never was a cuddler or emotional,but now I am. Why did it take 32 years?

Answer 1

God has a plan for us all...

Answer 2

Because it didn't take 33 years.  

Answer 3

For some people it just takes longer but ignore why it took so long. Thing is you´re in love so just enjoy it. It really doesn´t matter how long it took, although you wish it had been sooner without wasting time and effort on other men. But maybe that needed to happen to find this one, and I´m sure you realize it´s worth it.

Answer 4

because not only were you cheating yourself, you were also cheating the other person whom you did not truly love.

Answer 5

maturity, and the knollage of what you really wanted.