Why do I not dream about my sister who passed away 18 months ago?

Question

My sister committed suicide 18 months ago, while I was on vacation with my husband and children. She left no note or any kind or communication. My Mom, daughter and other sister dream about her all the time I have dreamt of her once and she would not make eye contact with me. Why do I not dream about her?

Thanks for your help

Answer 1

Sorry to hear about your sister. I've also lost a sister (to cancer) so know how you feel.

Our dreams are often a reflection of our subconsious thoughts that we've recently had. I'm not sure if you think of her a lot, but perhaps not subconsiously, which might explain why you don't dream about her. You may be dreaming about her too but not able to remember it.



The dream about her, not making eye contact suggests maybe there was hard feelings between you when she was alive. Your mind could be telling you about something in your past that you need to lay to rest. I could be wrong, but maybe there's something you haven't forgiven her for, which would explain why you can't see her in your dreams. If that is the case, you need to put it at rest. Forgive her in your heart and see if that helps anything.

I hope I've helped, and sorry if I've made any wrong suggestions, I'm taking a stab in the dark here, but it's a possibility. Good luck and hope things work out for you.

Answer 2

not everyone has dreams

you only remember you're dreams if you're not properly asleep so maybe you're tired

dont worry about it its fine

Answer 3

we dream every night but we do not always remember our dreams.  you could be dreaming about her but you just don't remember it.

Answer 4

Her spirit isn't ready to face you as yet. But she is letting you know she is ok.

Im not crazy or anything but I believe spirits communicate with us some way or another.

My grandmother came to me twice. I actually saw her sitting at the edge of my bed in all white. I was 11 when she past on and when I told my mom she told me she had on all white when she was buried. Then another time she visited me. I was cleaning my house with bleach and I smelled her sent. I talked to her then her sent was gone. I told my mom and the following Wednesday was my grandmothers birthday.

What im saying is give her sometime.

I would give more info but  I doubt if you have all day.

Sorry for your loss.  

Answer 5

I don't dream about my mother and she passed over 13 years ago . Now , I do think of her a lot and even talk to her during the waking hours when I need her.

Don't worry about it , your are quite normal and sweet for asking about this , if this is meant to happen it will if not don't worry.

I apologize for your loss and I am sorry for you.