When I was 15 years old, I had something very traumatic happen to me. For quite a few years afterward, I was so mentally messed up that I didn't even know who I was anymore.
When I look back at that stage in my life, I'm honestly surprised that I didn't take my own life. I came dangerously close to it and that scares me when I think about it.
Now that I am an adult (28 years old), I'm finally starting to come to terms with everything. Although, I still feel like a little girl.
It is like all time stopped for me since I was 15 years old. I may have aged physically, and outward appearances show that I am an adult (I'm married and a mother now). But, mentally I feel like a scared, lost, little girl.
I depend on my husband and my own two little girls to keep me safe. I'm supposed to be the mother, yet I am more afraid of the dark than my daughters are (I sleep with a night light still). My husband has a chronic illness and if he has to stay in the hospital for a few days then I freak out. I wonder how am I going to cope without him?
And the scariest part is that when I look in the mirror, I don't see myself as being a 28 year old mother and wife. I see me, the same as I was when I was 15.
Sometimes I am afraid that I am going to wake up one day and realize that I am old and I won't know what to do.
Does anyone else know what I am talking about? Sometimes I wonder if I am suffering from a sort of PTSD? I don't know, what does it sound like to you?
Any advice is appreciated! Thanks!
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