Why do I still think about my ex?

Question

I am happy with my current relationship but I don’t know why I can’t stop thinking about my ex. Thinking of how we were, and what if I we never parted ways. I haven’t seen or spoken to my ex in nearly 2 years. I try to think of other things, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t…what should I do?

Answer 1

You need to truly evaluate your current relationship and decide whether you are truly happy. It is perfectly normal to think of an ex from time to time but when it becomes a regular thought that is a problem. Be honest with yourself and decide what you want to do. Maybe it is not even your ex you want but more the good times you shared together. Talk with your current partner and see how things can get better.

Answer 2

nothing really.

i think you keep thinking about him because you still have feelings for him and you wished it would have worked out.

my advice is to try your hardest to quit thinking about him.. and move on.

you have a current b/f try to be happy with him.