Why do I think about my personal trainer so much?

Question

We talk a lot, and hes really fun.. sometimes he does strange things like push his body up against me for a second or tells my that my bf is lucky because I'm flexible n what not, it's just really weird, all these little things he does make me think about him so much, but is this just something personal trainers do? so they can keep their clients interested.. ?

Answer 1

you like him.

Answer 2

i think he's a bit of a creeper.

Answer 3

You hit the nail on the head with the end of your question.  Most people who hire personal trainers, or join a gym for that matter, will eventually quit.  They need that 'edge' to keep you coming back.  The body brushes are tactics.  He probably did it once and you didn't give a negative reaction so he will keep doing it.  I have a male friend who is a personal trainer and he does stuff like that all the time.  He also has a wife and child.  He has no intentions of 'messing' with any of his clients, it is only a part of the job.  I'm sure it isn't a bad perk for him though...  :o)

Answer 4

uhh he's obviously flirting with you and you like it so you like him.