Why do I think this way?

Question

I'm a girl, 16 years old.. and I think sometimes what it would be like to be a guy. Well.. it's more than thinking. It's more like wishing, wanting. It's on and off, but feeling it for a few years. What am I??

Answer 1

You could be transgendered

Answer 2

I would seek out a therapist that specializes in transgendered persons.

Answer 3

FTM trans

Answer 4

You're still a girl.  The devil is trying to mess with you.  If you become g*y or weird in some way, you will suffer many things you never knew about.  Try to surrender your life to Jesus Christ.  He will help you.  Read the Bible, the NT.

Answer 5

As with anything you don't have, you desire it. You have heard "the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence." You are normal. Everyone wants something they don't have. You are "wishing & wanting" not feeling as if you are truly a boy in a woman's body, so you are not transexual. Repeat, I think you are very normal.

Answer 6

hm, I sometimes have dreams like that...  

Isn't it fun?

I never wanted to go and get surgery or do hormone treatments, but it's interesting to think of how the other half lives and experiences things.

Answer 7

Hmm... You might be androgynous... If it's off and on, I doubt you are fully transgendered. I'm honestly the same way. I've kinda dismissed those feelings, personally, because I know that I wouldn't be any more happy "fully" as a guy than a girl. But don't get me wrong, I would love to be a guy, but because I'm pretty "on and off" like yourself, I know I would have moments wishing I were a girl again.

I guess the nail in the coffin for me is that I would never want to make a girl have s*x with a guy, even if I were "that guy". The notion that a girl would actually want to do it with a guy is just so foreign to me! lol.