Why do Mexican Guys (and Women at times) consistently pick on me?

Question

Whether I am out with my Cougar (Who happens to be white and blonde) or alone is seems that I always get singled out. Perhaps this is a Southern California phenomenon, I live in LA.

I could be in a parking lot, walking to a movie or getting a cheese burger or serving them as a customer. Either way, I get a dirty look, they get mad and extremely confrontational or they just get nit picky.

Could it be spawned from gang related racial cleansing:

http://www.streetgangs.com/topics/2007/102407nwrace.html

More over the negative sentiments towards blacks from latinos have been published in scholarly articles:

http://www.blackwell-synergy.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1468-2508.2006.00446.x

This same animosity has not been returned by blacks towards latinos in the same severity.

Whats up? (Que Pasa?)

Answer 1

Man skip them start fighting back they both weak

Answer 2

I think a lot of times if you are expecting to get treated a certain way, then you will get treated that way.  I'm not sure why this happens, but I think it is related to the laws of attraction - sort of an invisible force that creates these energies that fulfill our expectations.  It was described well in the recent book "The Secret".  

I used to think that a lot of black people didn't like me, but then I noticed my fiance didn't have the same problem, so I tried to act more like him.  Now when I meet someone new, people are almost always friendlier.  I can't tell you what I changed because I'm not sure, but my change in attitude seems to have made a big difference.  You are probably just throwing out a lot of bad karma.