Why do Parents let there Teens have s*x

Question

AND THEN GET ALL UPSET WHEN THERE CHILD GETS PREGNANT ????? OR AN STD ???

THEY ARE DUBAZZES.

Answer 1

There isn't anything they can do to stop it.  When there is a will, there's a way.  And teen hormones aren't easily ignored.  

Answer 2

what are they gonna do about it, put a chastity belt on their daughter.. its not something they can stop really...  

Answer 3

  Parents don't let their teens have s*x,you have just got to trust that your sons and daughters will make the right choices.You have to trust that you did all you can do as a parent to in sure they will wait.

You have to trust that you raised your child to over come peer pressure,and make sure you raised with enough knowledge of the human body.So,They wont fall for anything stupid a boy,or girl says to them to get them to have s*x.

They should also set the date age a little closer to being a legal adult.my mother was told when your old enough to vote your old enough to date,i was told when your old enough to drive your old enough to date.I will decide weather or not my daughter is mature enough to date at 16,if I don't think she is then she wont be able to until 18.  

Answer 4

The ones that "let" their children have s*x are morons who think that it is more important to be a friend than a parent.  Personally, I plan on being very open and honest with my boys about s*x and make sure that they know:

1) where I stand on the issue--that I don't want them to be promiscuous or to have s*x at a young age and

2) the importance of protection if you do choose to have s*x and to know how to use it properly.

Just because the law is laid down that you WONT have s*x before you are married does not mean that temptation will not occur or be succombed to.  The best thing it to be authoritative on your stance, but keep the lines of communication open.

Answer 5

yes,you are right.it's a very bad thing that parents are helping there children to "drawn there self on the sea".the main reason is due to ignorancy they dont know where is the success of their children.&they found they best &easiest job is s*x...

&in the end they dont know its consicuence.

Answer 6

Well, if you were the parent of a teen, you would realise its not as easy as "letting" them have s*x. Most parents dont want this to happen, but teenagers are very headstrong people. You cant lock your teen up in the house because you are scared that they are going to go and s***w their little heart out as soon as you let them out the front door. You just have to trust them.

I was a little b*****d teenager, and I never got pregnant, because my parents educated me about diseases and pregnancy, and so did my high school.

And what is a dubazzes, is that dumbass?

Answer 7

This is why the USA needs to see girls as adults as soon as they get their first period, and see boys as adults as soon as they hit 12.  Then they should let them get married as young adults so they don't do premarital  s*x which is AGAINST GOD.  If children married other children, then there would be less children born out of wedlock.  I say as long as the boy can support the girl, then let them get married.  40 years ago it was legal to marry your 11 daughter off to men in their 20s+.  100 years ago, 12 year old women were marrying 12 year old men and making babies.  They handled it perfectly fine.  Of course in those days, they were more mature and responsible then kids today.

Answer 8

because there really honestly isnt anything they can do about it but hope they are safe, talk to them about safe s*x, and pray they will follow it. they get upset when their children dissapoint them by having unsafe s*x.

Answer 9

first of all, because they expect them to use a condem. second, alot of parents don't let their kid have s*x. I dont think the parents should do that but the kid doesnt need their parents help for EVERYTHING!

Answer 10

Parents don't 'let' them haha.

I'm 15 and my mom had me at 17.

She always warns me about the consequencs but she trusts me to make the right decision.

She tells me that if I do it, it should be because I want to not because some guy does.

And if I do, be responsible and know what I'm getting myself nto

Answer 11

Well, I'm pretty sure the parents aren't AROUND when the kids are having s*x, so they aren't "letting them" have s*x.  Having s*x is a personal choice, and the parents have to be smart enough to start discussing the topic with their kids as soon as the topic comes up.  Informing kids about safe s*x, discussing pregnancy and STDs, and making sure you keep the conversation going forever is key.  s*x is natural; it's nothing to be afraid of; it should be talked about realistically, which means, "When you think you might be ready, you have to feel free to come to me about birth control and safe s*x."  Would you rather have THAT talk with  your child or the one where you say, "But I TOLD you not to have s*x before you got married!  Why didn't you listen to me?  Now I'm gonna be a grandma!"  Take your pick.

Answer 12

becoz teens r out of their control

Answer 13

As parents, we can't monitor what our kids do all the time, 24 hours a day, every day.   If you have ever been a parent or teen, then you already know this.

I think some parents have this odd belief that all teens do not have s*x, especially theirs.  And some parents don't talk with kids about pregnancy, responsibility or anything else.  Then others just let their kids run helter-skelter doing anything they like.  So if the kids think their parents don't care, because they have no structure and rules, it's no wonder they go looking for affection somewhere else (either with a sexual partner or getting pregnant - it is sometimes done subconsciously you know).

Yes, pregnancy can happen to anyone... but i wouldn't get all upset or have some sort of a fit of one of my kids became pregnant.  And if they had an STD, i'd feel terribly for them, then i would do the responsible thing - get them treatment.

Answer 14

Parents have no ultimate control over their teenagers.  And if they slapped them around enough as little kids then the teenagers are angry and rebellious - and they'll go out and get themselves in a LOT of trouble.  There is not one thing that parents are going to be able to do about that.

Answer 15

are you a parent of a teen? do you know how many ways there are to gain trust from a parent and then deceive them???? come on, no one 'lets' it is just the way it is. parents try to raise kids correctly, but there is no 'norm' when it comes to that. STD's - man, i have never had any of that stuff, goes to show the change in times. too much careless ness, gets one into some creepy trouble. pregnancy - parents want their kids to be kids, the youth don't seem to realize that being a kid only lasts so long, then the rest of your life is being an adult and supposedly/hopefully responsible. what parent wouldn't want their kids to enjoy their youth as long as they can? think about what you are asking. when you write the book on perfect parenting - without fail, please send me a copy..

Answer 16

Sometimes the parents truly do not know. But for those parents that actually allow the child to have s*x, and go with them to get birth control etc-  then they have no right to get upset when the teen gets pregnant.  It is kind of sad that a parent would actually say it is ok to have s*x.

Answer 17

most people dont know enough about s*x to be having s*x in the first place.. i dont know any parents who let their children have s*x and i live in a pretty liberal area of california... most parents disapprove and know their is nothing they can do... (i dont know if there is a rehab for sexually active teens) sexual education is ridiculous it can be compared to the anti-drug/dont do it campaign...

maybe parents are upset at their kids for not knowing safe s*x practices or knowing how to use contraceptives (things that are taboo to talk about in most households)..

do your self a favor and teach a teen or child whoever your target audience is how to avoid getting pregnant and how to avoid an std (cause they sure arent doing it in school) and maybe you wont seem like such a "dubazz"  

Answer 18

I agree!!

Answer 19

i dont think they LET them but be realistic...you cant be with your kids every minute. if they want to have s*x they will find a way. when i was that age i had plentyo f opportunities but never wanted to and never smoked or drank. my parents never talked ot me about it and i made that decision on my own.

i think its the parents who try to pay attention to their kids too much that it happens to. they never givethem any freedom so when they get the chance they sneak around.

thats why its important that kids are informed. because kids do alot more than parents know.

Answer 20

Talking to teens does have a lot of power!!  My parents talked to me about s*x and told me that I needed to wait until marriage, so I did.  Many parents don't think they can have influence over their teens so they don't even try.  I think it is wrong to not talk because teens then think their parents are okay with it (that is what they are taught by peers and usually s*x ed in school).  First teens saw s*x was okay and then they saw that "accidentally" getting pregnant is okay so now they are taking it a step further and trying to get pregnant.  It is really sad!!  Parents need to step up and talk to their kids!

Answer 21

Who is letting them have s*x.  It is just in this day and age things are out in the open, not pushed under the rug.  I would rather have my child come and talk to me about it and maybe I could give them the pro and cons.  It is hard enough growing up under the pressure they are under.  It is a different world now.  No parents want to know there kids are having s*x but a least we should be more open minded about it.  We are not condoning it we are being open with them.  Something I didn't have growing up because the word was taboo.    

Answer 22

Ugghhh that just disgust me to NO end! I wouldn't let my 15 year old daughter or my 17 year old son have s*x! I mean i can't stop them, but i can tell them not disrespect my husband and I in our house. You can't make someone do something, BUT you can give them knowledge about possible consequences of their actions. I'm not a parent that would allow my children to do such things, those parents that do that need to wake up and see that THEIR teens are going to end up staying with them, and THAT'S a lot of stress for EVERYONE!

Answer 23

Yes they are.

They don't know!

The teens sneak out!

They say there going to friends!

Emma