Why do Some Teen Girls

Question

Dont listen to what adults say about boys who arent good for them. " We love each other" , " He is misunderstood", " I never felt this way about someone", " You adults dont know everything". Its true, we adults DONT no everything , and yes there is a SMALL number of teens who actually fall in love but we have already been where you guys have been. But to get back to the point im asking why do some of you girls get mad when your parents , or responsible peers try to let you know that the guy is bad for you, you wont listen ?

Story: My 15 year old sister is a sophmore in high school and thought that she was so in love with this guy and mistaked love for strong attraction. I graduated last year when he was a junior and he has had a rep for pretending to care for girls then dumps them after s*x. I tried to tell my sister to leave him alone but she says " Nothing will come between them". So yesterday i visited my family and my mother says she is pregnant and the guy wont claim the child. And to make things worse , he also gave her chlamydia. Its things that happen like this everyday to young girls who think that they are in love with a guy so they feel that they have to spread there legs to " express there love".

Answer 1

I think it would be a better expression of love you keep your horniness in check and wait until marriage.  Its better to show your love for someone in other, simpler, safer ways

Like listening to them, or slipping them little notes and present to let them know you care

I agree with you so much!

I'm 17 at the end of the month, and my boyfriend and I have been together a year and a half.  We are not having s*x, nor anything close to it.

Answer 2

well i would get mad at my parents becauying to control the simple things in my life.. likes like telling me i can be friends w/ my bff cause she didn't something bad..

And some girls don't have to "spread they legs to express love" Most of them just can't no to the pressure the guy is putting on them...

megan Out!!

Answer 3

Bluntly, most teenage girls are stupid. I know, I was one of them. I didn't actually get pregnant until I was 19, but I went through alot trying to express what I thought ws love through the act of s*x. No teen girl wants to hear they are wrong. Its a crazy syndrome they all get at least once in their lives. It is called Iknoweverydamthing-itis. It sucks, but many young women learn the hard way. I will pray that your little sister is woman enough to look past this stupid jerk and realize she about to be someones mommy. This child will need her for at least the next 18 years and most importantly, HAVING A BABY BY SOMEONE DOESNT MEAN THEY ARE GOING TO BE AROUND AND YOU ARE GOING TO BE A HAPPY COUPLE.

Answer 4

It's cause teenage boys are douche bags and know that teenage girls are in a vulnerable stage of their lives and take advantage of it.  BUT you gave her fair warning of how this guy was, so it's all her fault.  But that doesn't mean you shouldn't find some guys to beat his a**.

Answer 5

I'm not sure about the legal age requirements about s*x in your state. But i strongly recommend just being there for your sister, i mean she wanted to feel loved so give her as much of it now as you possibly can. Everyone makes mistakes your sister was just young and vulnerable don't take any extreme measures.

In all honesty your sister is much better of without this man in her life, sorry BOY !! your sister cannot back down from her responsibility.

All the best & send your sister my love ♥

Answer 6

teen girls just so desperatly want to be in love and all that romantic c**p.  They beleive things will be different for them.

Very few teen relationships do turn to something real.  No, adults dont know everything, but we can see a bad idea, as most of us have already been thru it ourselves.

Answer 7

give your sister my love :D

Answer 8

most teen girls just wanna be loved they want to fit in so they can have someone to show and bragg about. i have been in a relationship where i thought i loved this guy so much no matter what he did or what anyone said even if i knew the things he did where wrong.it took me getting pregnant and finding out he had another child on the way to realize the things i was blind to.

& if i would i have listen to my mom and grandma i wouldnt be in the position im in now...basically its teen being stubborn think they know it all. thinking the love will last forever,it takes something really heart breaking for you to realize things you didnt before.

i wish i could take it all back

Answer 9

your sister deserved it.

Answer 10

Because we dont want ppl o tell us stuff let ppl figure things out 4 themselves.

Answer 11

there are teenage guys out there that are immature and others that are respectful, yet they both charm girls and when a girl falls for a guy her feelings take over rational thinking so therefore she falls for a guy and if hes not right for her then shell learn the hard way.