Why do X's feel the need to be so difficult?

Question

My husband x wife is a piece of work. She has lied and cheated to get what she wants and now the kids are picking up these nasty habbits. She has told us she has cancer then we never hear anything else about it. She has called my husband and left a message stating that she had heard things about him saying that he wanted to get back together with her. The big one is the divorce, She got everything and we got the bills. And for the next 10 years we will be paying not only child support but about 20K in bills that should have been split in 1/2. She's never home and she now has 2 DWI but only spent 15 days in jail and the lawyer tells us there is nothing we can do. She is now dating a man from the prison and he is out now. When we ask she says it is none of our business. She cheats the system when it comes to houseing, free lunches for her kids etc. She has even gone to the hospital after they were divorced and put my husband down as the gauranter on her medical bills. Oh we only get the everyother weekend and 6 weeks out of the summer. She also gets to claim them both every year on income taxes. Please someone explain how this happens. Help becasue I have lost all faith in happiness.

Answer 1

well you could hire someone to knock her off  but that would just cause more problems for you and your hubby.  I would take her back to court and try and see if you can do anything about the bills, turn her in to DHS for cheating the system and have her investigated.  try this site

www.thelaw.com

see if you can find out any more answers there.  But remember even if you cant find anything, what comes around goes around eventually!  My EX cheated on me and did some pretty shady stuff and is now in jail for molesting your son, after all hes done he FINALLY got caught!

Answer 2

Its just part of the role that's played by some immature souls. I think its a display of ones true colors.  

Answer 3

Same ol WAAAA! story.. I liked the part about the TAX EVASION.. Get on that..

Answer 4

I know when things like that happen that it is very frustrating.  But you cannot let that "take you off your square".  You should not let this get you down.  If you know that you and your husband do not deserve to be treated like that, then take solice in the fact that you have what it is that she wanted.  She is probably very bitter that her relationship did not work out and now she has to find an ex-con.  Remember that you got the prize and that you can afford to be the bigger person.  I know that the bills and the headaches do not seem like a prize, but at the end of the day, believe me, she is still wishing she were you.  People like that always get what they deserve it the end.  I promise,