Why do all the guys I meet want a committment? ?

Question

So right now in my life, I don't want to settle down. I am still pretty young, in my mid twenties, and I am working hard at a great career. I just came out of a serious 4 year relationship and I am not looking for a committment although I have been putting myself out into the dating scene. It seems like a lot of the guys I have been dating have been trying to make me their serious girlfriend. I've been straight forward and honest from the get go. One guy even turned out to be stalkerish about it and seriously got a tattoo and posted a myspace blog about it and how it related to me breaking his heart! The other guys I've casually dated have been normal although they still want a serious relationship with me. Why are guys like this??

Answer 1

not all guys are like this who do you look like pam anderson. Most guys run away from commitment unless you are picking ones that are older and ones that don't get dates aim for your own age and you will find one that is ok with the non-commitment. If their is nothing wrong with the guy and he is your age then you are picking needy men and be care full some of these men are not dealing with full deck  

Answer 2

You may subconsciously ellicit that behavior. Just be up front and feel free to mention that you're busy [whatever night] because you have another date. Make it clear you are just hanging out right now. Lastly, be patient, when you are ready to settle down the guys will no longer be interested.

Answer 3

I am in the same boat. Back when I WISHED guys were more into commitment, I couldnt get one to commit and now I dont want one, and they are all crazy now!! I dont know why they are like this. The only sure fire solution I have found for this is to just take yourself out of the dating scene for a while and enjoy the single life!

Answer 4

isnt it usually the girls bit*hing that all guys DONT want a commitment?? make up your minds! either you want it or you dont. you cant want it one minute then complain that you dont want it the next.