Why do all you mothers do it?

Question

I see a question about soreness when having s*x for the first time after giving birth. So many mothers said - its sore or I took a tylenol for it. If its so sore, why did you do it? Doesnt it hurt? Why would you put yourself through that?

Answer 1

because its gonna hurt the first time no matter when you do it. s*x is something that just you and your husband can enjoy together. its something you want to do. if it hurts too bad then of course you wait. the pleasure has to outweigh the pain.

Answer 2

i dk

Answer 3

I think it is the matter of being close  to your spouse. I know I waited for at least six weeks after having a baby and probably five to six weeks before I even had her. So having that closeness to my husband again made things nice. It was not like it hurt so bad that I could not stand it. A tylenol cleared up the soreness and it was done.

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Answer 4

maybe there hormones are raging and they just really want s*x that bad. but i know to many women that had s*x after birth and got pregnant because of it so i will wait a good long while to do it because i dont want one after the other

Answer 5

Because I get tired of giving him he*d.  Nah, I missed the closeness and the intimacy.  And it was uncomfortable, but he understood that, so he took his time.  

Answer 6

well my first time was 6 months after so i figured i better just deal with it or lost my husband to a prostitute!!! kidding but i felt bad so i gave in.

Answer 7

Because we miss the s*x and so it's a little sore, it's not bad enough to stop!  You'll know after you have a baby!!!

Answer 8

i did it so my husband would shut up

Answer 9

got to get back on the horse eventually. No pun intended

Answer 10

It hurt me - but I did it to shut my husband up. It was almost 4 months, so I gave in because I didn't want him trying to "find it" somewhere else!

Answer 11

s*x isn't just about wham bam thank you maam.....its about intimacy and love. so much more, many  more levels to a relationship and s*x. (at least a healthy one)  sometimes it is hormones, but when its not with someone you are close with afterwards it sucks....and after my baby, it was tender, but so was he. you want to be with him (or in some cases shut him up--every woman has been there weather she will admit it or not but that doesn't mean it was right after birth)   I did it because i was told not to (glad i did when i had the chance, my body did some terrible things for the next 6 months and it sucked) lol

Answer 12

s*x is suppose to be something intimate and special with your partner........ its a way to bond and reconnect with your partner.  Women do it to feel that closeness with there husbands........ and I am sure the husband appreciates it and enjoys it.   If you feel you are not ready.... tell your partner..... and try again when you feel that you are comfortable with it.  It really is a personal decison.  There is no right or wrong time to resume you sexual relationship after the birth of your baby.