Why do blacks hold a Grudge?

Question

Its not that black people are specifically mad at random white people nor are they looking for some type of apology that ridiculous!!!!! It's just some things in society still points out our indeffrence and thats frustrating!

Answer 1

WHO ARE THESE BLACK PEOPLE... I'm sick of hearing about them and never being able to meet any of them !

      Do they really exist or has everyone gone mad with paranoia ?

      All the black people I've known are/were  normal humans .

Answer 2

I think that the reason that people hold a grudge is for the sake of identity.

When you resent someone, it becomes a part of who you are.  You wonder who you will be if you let go of that anger.

Answer 3

People, whether black or white, hold grudges because they want to. I have seen people from different races deliberately look for reasons to hate someone of another race. It's pathetic that they do this.

Answer 4

i think is a question that you have to answer for yourself

Answer 5

Blacks are angry over racism, slavery, etc and while this does not apply to all backs, it does apply to some, but again, most blacks do rise above this and become successful because they don't use their past history as an excuse to avoid hard work and study and they ask more of themselves rather than blame the past.

Answer 6

Why do you insist on stereotyping?  THAT is frustrating.

Answer 7

hmm...

black or white its depend on brain not on skin col.

Answer 8

I agree. My black friends are angry for very good reasons, except that some of the anger is misdirected. Still, racism seems alive and well.

Answer 9

Sadly, I agree.  But only SOME black people, just as SOME white people are trash too.

I have encountered only one family like this, and honestly, it just makes me mad that I have to EXPLAIN that I am not racist.......really if you knew me you'd know that it wouldn't  matter if you were green with purple spots if you are nice you are nice, and I usually would like to get to know you.  

And secondly, my grandparents were in Czechoslovakia during the civil war so my ancestors really had nothing to do with slavery or the plight of your ancestors, although I do feel sad about it for those that it happened to.

Answer 10

Why do blacks hold a Grudge?  Personal and family memories, mostly.  Blacks were randomly discriminated against by random whites.  It is reasonable that they may hold a grudge against random whites later.  What astonishes is when someone such as Nelson Mandela is able to put memories aside in favor of reconciliation.

Answer 11

a lot of them have been taught to which is a shame.

Answer 12

Thats what I'm trying to figure out. "Some" blacks hold grudges for no reason, I guess, they think it will solve the problem..[which it wouldn't] I personally don't have the need to hold grudges..I think, its basically a waste of time..of my time. My cousin on the other hand, loves to hold grudges for no reason, I can careless about what she's having a fit about.

I basically can careless what other blacks do, and what they hate..its just bullsh*t to me. Holding grudges for no use of time..come on and grow up.

Answer 13

How would you feel if you went out to a movie or restaurant and got a dirty look from a white person just because of your skin color?

Racism is still everywhere in the U.S. It is surprising to me how it crops up out of nowhere all of a sudden by mean remarks by white people. (I am white.)

Answer 14

Its only some people, but I think it has a lot to do with how those people were brought up. If a mother and father held a grudge, then the child might be brought up to hold a grudge the same way, and then their children might hold a grudge and so on and so on. It would only stop when a generation decided to be independent from their parent's thinking.