Why do boys see me only as a friend??

Question

they say im a pretty girl and fun...but boys after the first date or even berofe say they se me as a friend??whats wrong??help its driving me crazy!!!!

Answer 1

Same here, why do girls only see me as a friend even before the first date. Maybe its the approach or your sending out the wrong signals

Answer 2

maybe ur just to innocent. lol if a girl looks and acts to innocent then it'll be hard for me to date them...

Answer 3

I think you send out vibes that say you are decent and wont sleep with just anyone.

This is wonderful but not so good for the guys that want to sleep with every girl they go out with.

Chill out, in time you will meet your special someone but probably it wont happen at the moment because you are mixing with idiots.

Dont think there is anything wrong with you, you are far too good for these boys, as they want easy girls that will take their knickers off on a first date.

Hang on to your pride and be different, different is interesting and a challenge.

Good luck.

Answer 4

are you friends with a lot of guys? i am and i used to have that problem they used to see me as just one of the guys no matter how pretty i was or wasn't

Answer 5

you're probably to nice or you don't drop enough hints

Answer 6

don't get crazy,sure you are cute and you will make some one to fall in your love.just don't worry.

Answer 7

I think that if you mean something but not alot you are friends. If they think you mean alot they would make you  their gf. But some people are on such a high level of friendship that they can't be more than friends.

Answer 8

I have the exact same problem! all guys see me as as friend :\ i am a very girly girl and thay all say the same things like im rellie pretty & have a great personanilty. Recentlly i have bagan to get feeling for this guy i have been friends with for ages and i have explained to him how i feel but he says he dosent wont to runin wot we have already

i no how u feel and im finding it real hard to! but i spose u just have to move on & keep looking for mr right!

Answer 9

I don't have this problem, so I wouldn't be much help. But I do really want to help. Maybe, 1) you treat them like a friend, or 2) you divulge too much (like not much of a conquest), maybe try being a little bit more mysterious? (Like "Wow there's more to this girl that I don't know about I want to know more, guys like a chase) Not revealing too much about yourself. Everyone likes a good mystery. Also try to decipher what makes a guy a friend to you as oppose to someone that's datable and work from there.

Good Luck!

Answer 10

Yeah I had that problem too. I wasn't girly enough so I started to do a bunch of things that made me more girly like buying nice looking clothes and lots of pink stuff.

Answer 11

You just haven't found somebody. Stay true to yourself and be yourself and I guy will come to you. Give it time.  

Answer 12

maybe u didnt hit the boys taste......

not all boys go for the looks.....there are some other criteria......

or maybe its not the time for u to get involved in serious commitment....

perhaps ur mr right is still on his way.....

or maybe u arent ready to have commitment with any guys.....

so, just wait and be patient.....

u will get one at the right time.....

dont be desperate gal.....make more friends and u will find alot things about guys.....then u can decide whom u want......

Answer 13

Maybe you're just not clicking and they are trying to be diplomatic.  Understand this:  It says nothing about your value or you.  It says that for whatever reason, they don't think you mesh.

Just accept it and move on.  One day you'll find someone.  It doesn't have to be right this minute.

Answer 14

Don't worry you'll find a guy 1 day.

Answer 15

HONEY THERE OUT THERE DATING GIRLS TO FIND THAT SPECIAL  PERSON,,AND MAYB U R JUST LIKE A FRIEND TO THEM,,B PROUD THEY  TELL U THE TRUTH,INSTEAD O F TRYING TO USE U FOR A BOOTY CALL,,AND U KEEP DATING AND MAKING LOTS OF GUY FRIENDS,,CAUSE U WILL FIND THE ONE GUY WHO REALLY LOVES YOU,,N U WILL LOVE HIM...DONT WORRY SO MUCH,,GO OUT HAVE FUN,,,B HAPPY,,,,PEACE

Answer 16

wow honestly maybe they jus dont wanna date you and they say your pretty to not hurt your feeling. i dont know cuz i dont know how you look like.