I read a response to previous post and it said something to the effect of "don't lose weight to seem more date-Able, and being exactly how you are should be enough for any man that ISN'T SHALLOW".
I consider that a gross misunderstanding of sexual attraction. As a guy who isn't attracted to the "larger" ladies i don't consider myself shallow, simply honest.
I'd compare dating a woman I'm not sexually interested in to equal dating another man. No matter how nice or how great that guy's personality is I will have no interest sexually in any man even if they have interest in me and would take it as an offense if someone claims I'm shallow because of it- same goes for "larger" ladies and elderly ladies for instance.
Some men like larger ladies, some men prefer other men, and some men don't fall into either of those groups- me for example
I'm not shalllow.
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