Why do g*y male couples tend to have s*x very early in a relationship?

Question

Not saying that every g*y male couple is like this. just from my experiences i've noticed it. Every guy ive been with we've had s*x on the first day x_x.... no joke...

Answer 1

well they don't need to worry about getting pregnant

Answer 2

girls are like that as well. i think it's because people love s*x haha. so if you have a connection with somebody, it's kinda like a "why not?"

i personally like to wait though. for a couple months or so until i truly know i like the person.

Answer 3

It's possible it has more to do with being male than with being g*y.

Answer 4

Basically because men are sexual beasts!  LOL haha

That said, I'm not going to have s*x on the first date ever again.  It generally leads to nowhere when men do that.

Answer 5

This kind of dates back to before the AIDS epidemic started.  Men can't get pregnant, so because there weren't any fatal diseases to be contracted (in the 1970's and before), s*x would generally happen on the first date. Now men still have s*x (albeit safe s*x, I hope, protected by condoms) on the first date.  

I'm not saying all g*y couples have s*x on their initial meeting (it's  happened to me on occasion--end of date, no nookie) but it (s*x on the first or second date) happens more frequently than to straight couples, because of the pregnancy thing, I suspect.

Answer 6

This issue came up in the show "q***r As Folk"...

Ted says that we are simply just men and that we, as men, are very sexual beings and we just want to f***. Those guys are generally the ones who are not interested in getting into a relationship. Then there are those who do want a relationship and thus wait to have s*x with that person. There are straight men who do this too. It is not limited to the g*y community.

Answer 7

I don't care if you're g*y, straight, bi, trans, if you're a man, you are going to want s*x asap

Answer 8

Simple: Men in general love s*x, so when 2 guys get together usually both want to have s*x, I wouldn't have s*x on the first date though, I'd wait a few months

Answer 9

Actually, my partner and I waited for nearly three months after we started dating to have s*x.

But, to answer your question in general:  the hormone testosterone, which controls s*x drive.  Men have lots and lots and LOTS of testosterone and we're visually oriented -- so put two people with lots of testosterone who are visually oriented together and -- they'll have s*x!

Answer 10

Yuck!

Answer 11

Why not, there is no law against it.

Answer 12

My first guess is that because g**s have been excluded from society, have traditionally been told that their relationships have no future, that they can never marry, etc., and they have no models for developing lasting relationships.  So they simply go for the gold the first time out of the gate.  And in some cases, the straight world's view of g**s as habitually promiscuous may give some g**s the impression that early s*x is expected of them by society.

It may also be true that guys are just so comfortable around other guys, being one of them and having socialized with them from birth, let alone being naked with them in the locker room, etc., that it's easier to initiate s*x with them than with the opposite s*x.

Answer 13

yeah its true, i don't want a man inside me until we have been together for at least a 4 months..

But then again, I guess men are men, if men could do that with women they would...

Answer 14

Jonathan and I had s*x when he seduced me -- I had no idea he was interested, or bi/g*y.  We've been together nearly 17 years.  I don't know why we do it, but it seems to work.

Regards,

Hermes

Answer 15

Ever think it was you and not them? ;)

Answer 16

The first answer nailed it.

ALL men want s*x early in the relationship. It's not just a g*y thing, but when you have two guys it is much more likely to happen.

Answer 17

Actually heterosexual persons are more likely to have s*x @ an early age then homosexual persons.