Why do girls create so much dumb drama? Easy points! PLEASE ANSWER! :)?

Question

I honestly don't get this at all. I am fourteen, and no matter what or who I am friends with they are always rude at one point or another. I am vaguely vaguley ever rude its suuupperr rare that I am, I look normal or a little bit above. (not trying to be conceided at all just trying to give you a little backround to understand where I am coming from more.) Anyways, liketoday I went to my friends house, everything was great. Then a couple hours later three of her friends comeover.

I was nice and everything, (her and her friends don't go to my school) her friends and I were like in the same "group" of people but they completely ingored me. It turned out so akward. Its like this at school all the time. I am super nice and its never returned. Also, I am going into highschool this year (in 7 days) and I was wondering does the drama get worse? I absoulutely hate it with a passion. I know other girls just say it but I don't start rumors or anything! Its like my luck is never there.

Thanks in advance. <3

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Answer 1

yes, some girls are like that, too much soap opera, but peeps like me aren&#039;t. we just let things go and go with the flow

it&#039;s almost funny how relationships are the main drama point

maybe its raging hormones

or maybe they wanna look cool like the movies

I dunno, Im not dramatic.

Answer 2

well...some girls are just naturally like that. they could pretyend to like you, or something. But since you said you are so nice, and rarely mean, AND above average on the hotness scale (according to you), they may just be jealous of you, and WANT to be your friend because you are just that much better than them.

if i were you, i&#039;d continue the nice behavior, and not change at all. You don&#039;t have to fit in and be rude WITH them. it won&#039;t answer your problems.

Answer 3

They do it out of PURE jealousy&amp;insecurities.They might be jealous of you and girls are like that and I gotta admit it is annoying.Some girls just don&#039;t like each other.They are like that even if you didn&#039;t do anything wrong to them.

Answer 4

oh high school is the WORST

things you went through in middle school won&#039;t even compare to some of the things you&#039;ll go through in high school. that&#039;s how it was for me at least.

girls are always catty no matter what city state or country you live in. You could do exactly as they ask and they will still be catty towards you. thats just how girls are. I&#039;m not like that at all though.

however, the great thing about high school is theres a whole new giant school of people for you to make friends with. try meeting new people and be very social. high school is one of the times in your life that you&#039;re never going to forget. so make sure you surround yourself with a good group of drama free friends and you&#039;ll have pleasant memories instead or more unpleasant ones.

Answer 5

they may be just shy that&#039;s why they ignored you,..

or

you were talking and talking and they don&#039;t know what to say

or

they dont like you?

Answer 6

Because some girls ARE really dumb (sry girls!) so they act mean/cool. But some girls are really truly nice so maybe you should find a real group of friends, not the kind that you have to ACT nice to :) Good luck!