Why do girls just keep getting sluttier younger?

Question

I realized something a while ago... as years go by females get more sluttier at younger ages. I call it S****y because they usually look like a s**t. Plus they are starting to have s*x at younger ages. WHY? I don't mean to be rude or judgmental, but that is just the way it looks to me.

Answer 1

Kidz these days am I right? I realized that too maybe its all the hip hop rap stuff they be listening too these days. I use to luv rap and hip hop but then they started rapping about stupid things and have u seen the videos!! the guys treat girls like s***s and girls on there are almost and some are naked! Dont they realize kids are watching these things!! They also make it seem that it is ok to do drug and have s*x at a young age. They show kids thats wat kool and stuff, Pimp hustlers -_-  

Answer 2

Because society tells them they wont be accepted if they don't. Pretty sad, you can call something "cool" and subsequently brainwash an entire society via the television.  Everyones is deep down scared and insecure and just want to be accepted and they will do almost anything to make that happen. I know i'm being negative, but it just seems to be that way.

Answer 3

well i suppose i can't take all the credit.

Answer 4

falling into the african culture. sad but true  

Answer 5

Because they think that it's the cool thing to do.

Answer 6

commercial pressure.

once you've sold all those crappy cosmetics and clothes to older girls it's time to start on the seven year olds.

It's about profit and the parents are too stupid and idle to see it

Answer 7

The influence of myspace.com, no doubt.

being able to see what the "older kids" are up to, and trying to fit in with them..

its them trying to fit in and be "cool"

because apparently, s*x makes you cool.

not.

Answer 8

im 16 and i must say my generation is so messed up. everyone drinks,smokes, and dresses like s***s. i don't do that because i repsect myself. but these other girls do it because they think its COOL but its not

Answer 9

Bratz dolls and padded bras for 8 year olds.

Answer 10

That is because popular culture and our current society encourages "S****y" behavior. Young girls have incredibly impressionable minds. The human brain is not fully developed and capable of efficient logical reasoning until the early 20s. The frontal lobe is responsible for judgment and reasoning skills and is one of the areas that does not finish developing until early 20s.

When I was 17, I had s*x with my boyfriend. After he broke up with me, I got a new boyfriend and had s*x with him after only dating one month. I look back and am shocked at what a naive, lost little girl I was. I am not the same person I was back there. I had terrible judgment but more importantly I was so naive and impressionable. I believed that everyone was out for my best interests and as long as I was nice to others, they woudl be nice back. I believed my boyfriend that he loved me with all his heart and he would love me back.

I went to Planned Parenthood at age 17 to get birth control pills. Contrary to what people think, they do NOT do any form of counseling explaining the risks and dangers of having s*x at a young age. (not physically (STD wise) or emotionally. I got the message that it was perfectly fine because authority figures and women that I looked up to handed me birth control pills and acted like it was the norm to take them. All my friends went to Planned Parenthood together. 6 of us would carpool there and the women at PP never told us the dangers.

I was NOT ready for s*x at that age. It caused a lot of emotional trauma. A made a lot of poor decisions that have caused pain. However, they have made me the person I am today. At age 21, I now believe my brain is fully developed and I am capable of good judgment and decision making.

So back to your question, girls have s*x at younger ages because it is the norm. It is a vicious cycle. Since all their friends are doing it, they go along with it. Young girls naturally follow what everyone else is doing and conform to the group. Also, s*x education in schools sometimes uses the philosophy that kids are going to have s*x anyways, so why not let them protect themselves. I disagree with them completley. I had s*x at a young age because my health class seemed to encourage it. The ladies at Planned Parenthood encouraged it and acted like it was completley normal to be on birth control at 17. Now, if I had a role model to look up to that showed compassion and explained in a logical manner how s*x at a young age can cause emotional pain, I would have listened. The only role models I had were my 17-year-old boozing s**t friends and the ladies at Planned Parenthood.

Some people will tell me to take responsiblity for my actions and don't blame them on other people. I disagree with that. Suppose you buy a new puppy that is 8 weeks old and was never house trained. You throw it in your house and don't take the time to teach it to go outside to releive itself, and just expect the puppy to magically learn how to go to the door and bark to go outside. The puppy would have absolutley no idea that it is wrong to releive itself on the carpeting. Obviously the puppy would not be at fault for releiving itself on the carpeting, since it was naive and never giving the chance to learn.

Also, the popular media has a lot to do with it. In a nutshell, s*x sells. The vast majority of advertisements sell s*x, which teach young girls tha they have to be s**y in order to be appreciated.

These girls are S****y because there were no role models that explained to them that they had self worth. No one explained to them that there is much more to life than being s**y, and the key to self-esteem is confidence in your intellectual capacity and character.

I am 21 now. It took me awhile to realize my self-worth. I don't have s*x. I don't want a boyfriend. I can make it on my own. I am incredibly successful and I am headed to law school in 12 months (applying this September)

I hope to mentor teenage girls to make them aware of their self-worth and steer them in the right direction. Teenage s*x is NEVER good, not even marital teenage s*x because teens are way too young to be married.

You probably are not S****y and make good decisions because you had a good support system around you. You probably had parents that cared about you and were involved in your life. When teenagers have parents around that are involved in their live, it often cancels out the negative influences from boozing, S****y friends. Be lucky you had such a great support system!

For me personally, a lot of the influence was from my first boyfriend. He abused me emotionally and made me believe I was a worthless piece of meat and my only good quality was that I was "s**y." He would call me poor, whitetrash (my family was poor) and that I looked like a pornstar and would never amount to anything in life. He woudl constantly ridicule my appearance and tell me how fat I was. I believed his words and for a couple years believed that my only source of self-worth came from sexuality.

I am glad I finally learned what a complete loser he is!!! Now I believe in myself!! Again, these young girls need role models that will cancel out all the abuse and negative influences they are receiving.

Answer 11

that's just the way society is percieving them now...they see things on t.v. that influence them.

alot of the media glamorizes S****y looking young girls.

Answer 12

i have notice a pattern it was under stand able when they got married at like 13 cause of the short lifespan but now the life span is getting longer but the parents are still stuck in that but the girl isnt ready to get married so she does something else instead  with some of them you just relize that they are trailer trash and their parents dont care so they want to get back at them for not careing most of their lives but when you have spoiled rotten kids like "preppies" doing it who are essencialy rich and gifted they still seem to do that kind of stuff and it never seems like they even realize what they are doing