Well, though the title suggests sexism Im asking b/c of something that happened in 8th grade (Now a freshman)
Ok, there was a girl who was in an unhelathy cycle of fallign for "charming jerks" Basically they , at moments, had a lack of consideration for this girls feelings. I considered myself soemthing of a friend of this girl. I decided to try and do soemthign about this "cycle" but telling her to not go back to him was obviously not going to work. So I put it out there.
It decimated the friendship and made things very awkward. I do not regret my actions but am wondering why she is still very vigilant of my presence and lack of confrontation on the issue.
Before any of you start screaming rapist or anything (yes that has happened) I did NOT want to control her in anyways shape or form. I simply wanted to get a friend out of a unhelathy cycle. My means for doign so was taking drastic action.
I would have told somebody else to do it seeing I had no attraction to this girl but I did not know of anyoen who was attracted to her. So I did it myself.
Before you start saying Im making sacrifices to make up for my past, again, no Im only serving what purpose I think to be right.
Anyways moving on, its now ben a few months and she has no let up on the vigilance and the feeling of it beign awkward. I personally feel it is awkward too. However, I am wondering why she refuses to let the tension die down between the two of us.
Im asking in Womens health because I want a womans perspective. Not some random douchebag from singles. (On a side note douches are bad for your health, the vaina is a self cleaning organ)
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