Why do girls make us cry so badly? Why do they hurt the hearts of the people who care for them?

Question

My girlfriend is planning to move in different city to find a job, she will move at March 2009, my god I’m really scared what if she will find someone new, I don’t know what to do if she is going to move to different city I don’t know what will I do, I’m scared cause I love her so much I don’t want to lose her, she said she will be there for 3 years I’m really crying right now even as you are reading this I’m so heart broken, I don’t want to lose her but I want a great future for her, I don’t know what to do, why is it my life is like this, I never wanted to fall in love in the first place but I cant stop it, I feel like the world is falling down on me, Why? I can’t take it. I’m so sorry.

I am not bragging but (I am good looking) my friends sometimes advice me to go to expose your looks they also advice me to go to show business or become a model. I just don’t understand why girls are like this do they even care to those people who are loving them?

Please give me an advice of what to do, how do I show her that I love her so much and I don’t want her to move. Please I’m really heart broken right now.

Answer 1

well i depends if you are 18 or older then move with her

but if you not and she really loves you then she want find someone else tell me how it works out for you

Answer 2

The last thing you should do is try to prevent her going. If she thinks she has a good future some where else, you must let her find out for herself. Yes, she may find somebody else but she could also find somebody else where she lives now. That depends on the chemistry between you. If you prevent her going she will resent it for the rest of her life and have that extra weapon against you if have an argument, which, if you are normal people, you will. There are telephones, computers, web cams and microphones. Let her go with your blessing and keep in touch for as long as you both want to remain in touch. There are buses, trains and aircraft to visit each other. You could even move and live in her new city yourself if she is right about finding a good future. It will, apart from anything else, be a good test of the strength of your relationship. You should be happy that she has got the bottle to move to a strange place, by herself, to try and secure a better future.